so i dont know what to do
2006-09-04 13:28:26 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
yes you can be bisexual. if you're genuinely attracted to both.I am bisexual.It's not confusion and you can't help who you're attracted to.bi-curious are those who are straight but wonder what it be like with the same gender.Being bisexual isn't being undecided or confused.Sometimes a bisexual is attracted to a woman , sometimes a man.some bimales lean more on the gay side or straight side,some bi females lean more on the lesbian side or striaght side.Then there's bimales and females who are 50/50...It all depends on the person.well m friend is bi but is with guys the most..She's still bisexual because she finds them both attractive..So really wouldn't matter if you choose one over the other.You will still be attracted to both.
2006-09-04 13:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by no name 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself that's all you can do. You know you like boys so if you are bi you are more on the gay side maybe. Have you ever been with a girl? Did you enjoy it? Do you ever fantacize about girls in a sexual way or is it mainly just guys? Answer those questions and you will maybe have a better understanding. Being bisexual is completely OK and yes it does exist. In fact if there wasn't so much negative social stigma with the whole thing I'd say a lot more people in society would probably be bisexual to some degree.
2006-09-04 13:33:04 · answer #2 · answered by JR 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you not believe in peole being bi? If you're sexually attracted to both men and women you are bi. There are those who believe that sexuality is a continuum, with only a very small percentage of people being 100% straight or 100% gay -the remaining overwhelming majority would be considered bisexual to at least some extent.
2006-09-04 13:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by Dragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you believe that a person can be either heterosexual or homosexual then you must believe that they are truly attracted to one or the other not just doing it by choice, right. So the attraction is to the person inside not just the physical body. therefore you do unconsciously believe in bisexuality because it is all about being attracted to the soul and psychological being and just as someone is born straight or gay some are born attracted to both physical genders that suit the souls they are attracted to
Now you just have to relax and let yourself be free to be attracted to the individual not a group
2006-09-04 13:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by chocolate sundae 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound young so don't try so hard to put a label on yourself, a lot of young people are just curious and have mix feelings.
Oh and by the way I'm Bi but you don't have to believe in me.
:)
2006-09-04 13:42:22 · answer #5 · answered by Super 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bis are real. My partner of 15 years (almost) duration is bisexual. He loves me and elected to be gay, at least for as long as I live (my family is shorter lived than his and I'm several years older). We are very happy.
Never let hardening of the orthodoxies get in the way of reality. Too many people on all sides of all issues do that.
*hug*
If you like both you like both.
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Reyn
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2006-09-04 15:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wheather or not you believe in ppl being bi-sexual does not mean that they are not... there are so many ppl that have a preference but go both ways and then there are some ppl that have no preference about gender and just want a good person to love them... it is possible to be bi-sexual and you may very well be bi...
2006-09-04 13:50:37 · answer #7 · answered by jen4802051709 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well there are bisexual people out there, and there are many more straight and gay people who behave bisexually. It's not like not believing in the tooth fairy.
Be who you are and see where it takes you. Worry less about putting a label on yourself and others, and worry more about seeing that each and every one of your relationships is filled with caring and respect.
2006-09-04 14:08:04 · answer #8 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and attraction shouldn't be defined by a gender or sex or race or whatever. Why can't you be bi and like all kinds of human beings?
2006-09-04 15:05:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am attracted to men and women..... a lot of people are, why wouldnt you believe people can be bi? If people can be attracted to the opposite sex, and some attracted to the same sex, why wouldnt there be some people stuck in the middle?
2006-09-04 13:31:15 · answer #10 · answered by impossble_dream 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋