my best friend is going out with my ex. and i hooked them up and i had asked him if heliked her before they went out and he was like no i don't want to go out with her or anything. then she told him she liked himand he was like ok and the next day i he asked her out because i made him and now it seems like he doesn't like her and he still likes me. because he is always looking at me and flirting with me i am confused
2006-09-04 13:20:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
definitely not
2006-09-04 13:22:11 · answer #1 · answered by Spaghetti MY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing you need to learn is never play cupid and get in the middle of anything having to do with a relationship that doesn't invove you. Why in the world would you want to hook your ex and your best friend up in the first place? That just spells "disaster."
Let things go how they will go and tell him if he doesn't like her then he should break it off. This situation isn't fair to your best friend and if it doesn't end she is going to get hurt - and if she finds out that you made him ask her out she is going to be hurt and pissed at you.
2006-09-04 20:24:04 · answer #2 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he is confused also. I wouldn't go as far as wondering if he "loves" her. Maybe he likes her, maybe he doesn't, you can't really get the answer unless you are inside his head. Even asking him may not get you the answer. He may be with her to be close to you, or he may be with her because he has nothing better to do and doesn't really care. That's what it sounded like by your details. Let's be honest here, men are less mature than women are, its a fact. So this entire situation may be much more serious to you than it is to him. Don't try to figure him out, girl, because the chances are he doesn't know what he's doing and why either.
2006-09-04 20:28:14 · answer #3 · answered by beckmat0119 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you say he is your ex I presume you didn't want him or you wouldn't have hooked him up with your mate.
I would suggest that you leave them to get on with it and ignore his flirting.
As a good friend you will obviously be there to pick up the pieces if it doesn't work out!
2006-09-04 20:25:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex does not like your best friend...but since you let him go I think he's trying to make you realize that he still loves you and maybe you guys can try again. But there's also a chance that he's trying to make you jealous.
2006-09-04 20:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by baby_green92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he still likes you or he is flirting with you to get your best friend to break up with him there is no doubt that he doesn't like you still. I think you should tell your friend that he is still flirting with you and that he doesn't like her
2006-09-04 20:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by girlygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop flirting with him and stop forcing him to go out with your best friend.
You're just hurting her.
2006-09-04 20:22:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wanted to do anything that you asked. He Doesnt love her. he just did it. so you wouldnt feel like a failure. and he said ok because he figured that you didnt like him so he just moved on to her. girl, he likes you.., Go for it if you like him.
2006-09-04 20:24:21 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_poetic_fire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is your friend be upfront with her about whats going on that way no one gets hurt in the long run
2006-09-04 20:24:54 · answer #9 · answered by cindydean2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY THE HELL DID YOU HOOK UP YOUR BEST WITH YOUR EX? CAN YOU ACTUALLY TELL US YOUR HAPPY WITH THAT. THAT HAS TO EAT YOU UP INSIDE. AND WHAT KIND OF BEST FRIEND IS SHE?
2006-09-04 20:24:48 · answer #10 · answered by DESIREE W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is going out with her to make you happy.
2006-09-04 20:26:42 · answer #11 · answered by Milkman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋