ive sked 3 other questions related to this and the only good responses came from (KC, & Aubnt jewly ) some one plz help me im only 13 and i didnt mean to get pregnant i even used pertaction but osme how i feel like i am but im not 4 sure and i dont want my firends or family to no either, i wanna no 4 sure be 4 i say anything ot anyone !so some plz help me im begging u !!!!!!
2006-09-04 13:08:13 · 16 answers · asked by Maranda D 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
go and get a pregnancy test from the drug store or go to planned parenthood.
2006-09-04 13:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you actually missed your period yet?
If you miss your period wait a few days then take a pregnancy test...To get money lie to your parents and tell them you are going shopping but actually go get a test.
You could also go to a free clinic so you should go threw the yellow pages to see if you can find one really close and they will give you a free pregnancy test.
What were you thinking having sex at 13? You are a little kid and should be out playing and having fun not going around having sex and no matter what you use be it birth control or a condom you can still get pregnant those things just lessen the risk of getting pregnant they do not actually 100% protect you from it.
Hopefully you are not pregnant and learn your lesson and do not have sex till you are an actual adult. To many kids are getting knocked up and they have to grow up so fast , take it from someone who had a baby at 17, it was really hard and I barely have time to hang out with my friends.
I have parents who watch my son every weekend and let me go out t oclubs and stuff because now I am 19 but many parents are not like that. My friend has a kid the same age as mine and her parents never watch her daughter so she can never have fun, she eve nhas to take her daughter to the bathroom with her, thats how lazy her parents are.
Next time think about the consequesnces and think do you really want to be a mom at 13 not to mention the risk to you and the baby, at 13 your body is not ready to carry a baby .
2006-09-04 13:33:36 · answer #2 · answered by Diamonds_Glow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're scared to tell someone before you're sure, then the best thing to do is to go with a friend or someone older that you trust (and who you know won't tell anyone else) and buy a home pregnancy test and take it in your (or your friend's bathroom). They are not hard to take and they take about 5 minutes.
It will be the fastest/easiest/least expensive way for you to find out.
If it comes out positive you're going to have no choice but to talk to your parents.
2006-09-04 13:47:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok.... I would first go to an emergency pregnancy care place and have a pregnancy test taken. Or you could have one done at the doctor's office. I pray that you get through this and have support. You NEED TO TELL YOUR PARENTS!!!!!!! They're going to find out sooner or later, but for now, just take the tests and see if you are and then go from there. If you need anymore help just ask!
Good luck and God Bless
2006-09-04 13:14:26 · answer #4 · answered by Yeah it's me................ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your guidance counselor at school to get some hands on suggestion.
Do the pregnancy test to find out if you are really pregnant.
Talk to your parents to see what they will say.
I note you said that you do not want anyone to know about it. That is fallacy. Someone will know about it and the only question is who? and may be how long before they do? Let your parents know for moral support.
2006-09-04 16:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by sexonsight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you get a ride from a friend or take a bus to the nearest planned parenthood? They will provide you with medical care, such as tests and blood work, to determine if you are pregnant. And you do not need a parent with you at the time, nor do they have to contact your parents.
You can do the same with your local doctor if you cant get to a planned parenthood.
2006-09-04 13:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a home pregnancy test or go to planned parenthood they can not say anything to anyone but you. You shouldn't be having sex at 13 and if you aren't pregnant get on birth control
2006-09-04 13:15:14 · answer #7 · answered by mommy@18 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes protection doesn't work. First be calm, it could be a false alarm. Go to Crisis Pregnancy Center if you have one nearby. If not, get a pregnancy test at a store (about $10.00) Don't freak out until you know for sure. Do you have anyone you can talk to?
2006-09-04 13:12:18 · answer #8 · answered by jackie681987 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are very young so I am really hoping for your sake that you are not pregnant. I would suggest taking a home pregnancy test to find out either way. If you are pregnant I would suggest telling your parents as you are classed as a minor and would need their help to guide you in what is best for you to do.
2006-09-04 13:10:45 · answer #9 · answered by silverthorn73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my broz gf had 2 do the same thing what u do iz go get a pregnency test and den take it or u can go 2 a family doctor and they will test u and no body will hgaft 2 know about it
2006-09-04 13:12:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋