I have no attraction to what I was once attracted to before i came. Why is this? Why do I feel gross afterwards? then a few hours later I can do it all over again?
2006-09-04 13:08:00 · 16 answers · asked by Spunny 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
LOL - practice makes perfect!
2006-09-04 13:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by Dave 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ha- I am the same way.
Sex is mostly in the head, so probably after you release the buildup, then the "idea" has lost its appeal.
Sometimes, I think, people create erotic fantasies in their heads to escape from social or relationship constraints... but obviously, you can't be in that fantasy "place" all the time! What a turn off to see the kinds of things which sometimes get me aroused when I'm in the middle of cleaning house or talking on the phone with a friend!
2006-09-04 13:22:09 · answer #2 · answered by Jessie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its cultural. And you keep on trying pressing the same button that gave you something nice again and again. I don't understand the attraction to porn, but it sounds like maybe you are only attracted by the "badness" of watching it. But it doesn't last.
2006-09-04 13:26:14 · answer #3 · answered by Delora Gloria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porno is unreal but a reminder that there ARE humans who actually satisfy sexually. You can not at this time simply arouse yourself to orgasm. Perhaps you are dissatified with yourself and this extra need for an artificial and inconvenient stimulus. Certainly you know that sexuality is really a social drive to human contact, but the lack real affection disturbs you. You would rather love the person you are sexually active with, but porno is not a real person, much less not an unreal person you love.
2006-09-04 13:19:08 · answer #4 · answered by Psyengine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first answer. It's the same way for me too. It's all about the chemicals your brain releases before, during and after an orgasm.
2006-09-04 13:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by kaloptic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physiologically, a woman is not able to be stimulted directly after orgasm (rarely if so)
It is simply your body's hormones functioning normally that does this.
Same thing with the re-attraction- once the hormaones settle again, you can start over.
Perfectly natural for a woman.
2006-09-04 13:13:53 · answer #6 · answered by Yentl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-06 10:04:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha, I experienced this. Well the first part I still do. It's because when you get aroused all your natural fluids (which you release as semen) all builds up and when you orgasm it releases. That fluid turns you on and without it you are likely to not be turned on again. However, it builds up over time, like you said sorta, so you can continue until you get aroused again (takes about 2 mins for me but probably longer for you). I felt gross but don't worry, it's totally okay to feel that way. Just get used to it and enjoy the sensation and feel proud after and relaxed:)
2014-05-30 13:20:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes our fantasies make us feel guilty because they are not mainstream. Plus when you're all "riled" up, it puts you into a different frame of mind. I think many people go through this.
2006-09-04 13:13:38 · answer #9 · answered by Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that when we are horny we do something about it...but when we are not horny all it takes is time and next thing you know...we are laying down horny as hell on top of each other...and when we are done life still goes on...and it just repeats itself againx2...i dunno-but this question is getting me in the mood...j/k
2006-09-04 13:17:07 · answer #10 · answered by 2Luâ?¥2Ha8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The arousal level plummets and it takes a while for you to recoop and be ready for another go.
Jerry
2006-09-04 13:13:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋