Tomorrow I start my first day of high school. I don't know anyone at this school because im going from public to catholic system. Im really worried about meeting new people and making friends. The thing im most worried about is the rotation of classe's. I don't know how im going to make friends because there's no "home room" class in high school. Every one rotates to different classes in the course's they picked so I won't really be able to meet one particular person I like and be in the same class with them all day.
Since majority of the other kids are coming from the catholic elementry schools they all know each other and I doubt they will be bothered to make friends with "outsiders" from the public school or just new kids in general.
Im so nervous. I have a sick/weak and nervous feeling. I can't stop sweating either. I know it's silly but I just can't help it no matter how hard I try to think of other things.
How can I calm myself and stop being so worried?
2006-09-04 13:03:57 · 13 answers · asked by ANTI-CND 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
I was homeschooled and then started public school my freshman year. Man, I was freaked out! I didn't have any friends, and I didn't know my way around the school, and I though the teachers were all scary. But after awhile I really started having fun!
It's true - it's scary at first. But highschool is a lot of fun, especially if you're willing to step out and look for it. Seriously, try it. There's a pretty good chance that you're not the only one starting out for the first time in a public school. And you'll have time with the people in your classes, and even though you won't be with them in each class, you'll see them and get to know them every other day in class, in passing, and at lunch. You'll survive, I promise. They're not all out to get you.
Calming down: just let yourself get caught up in it. Try not to think about it too much, especially right when you get there. Have your wits about you, but don't overthink stuff. You'll be a pro in no time.
Here's some things I learned from highschool:
Definitely wear something comfortable on the first day!! You will have enough trouble looking for your classes without worrying about wardrobe malfunctions. :-)
A backpack or a messenger bag is a good idea for your stuff, at least until you know your way around so you won't have to keep track of a lot of small things.
Don't be afraid to ask questions, especially from teachers. (A bad idea is to ask senior boys, for obvious reasons.) If you get lost, find somebody and ask where you are. They'll understand.
Don't act like you know it all already. Upperclassmen are driven crazy by freshmen who think they own the school by the first couple of weeks. Try to figure your way around first, then get involved and people will realize that you're not just another stupid freshman.
For the first couple of days, I would suggest bringing a lunch. That way you can figure out the timing on lunch, to know how much time you have to eat and if you think you would have the patience to stand in line and if the food's any good. Some days, it's easier to buy your lunch, especially on days when you were in a rush and didn't have time to make one, but I found it to be a lot easier to have food already so I could find a spot and sit down while everybody else is shoving for a spot in line. That way you can save a spot for your friends too. (You'll get some!)
Big tip: get involved any way you can!!! Drama, choir, student gov, dances, band, anything. It makes high school SO much more fun. Oh, and go to the games. Any games, but especially football. It's great on a Friday night.
Make friends with the staff, if you can. It will stand you in good stead throughout your highschool career - believe me, it helps to be friends with the custodian when, during Christmas break, you leave your papers at school and the school's locked and he's the only one who can let you in so you can get them and finish the 8-page paper that's due the day you come back from break! (I speak from experience!!) :-) All it really takes is saying hi to them in the hallways and taking time to talk to them as an equal rather than acting like a too-cool highschooler. They will respect you for that and become your friends-in-high-places...which will come in mighty handy along the way!
You'll have fun. Go with the flow, but (here comes a cliche) be yourself! It's a great time and you'll love it if you take it all in stride. Good luck!
2006-09-04 13:20:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Just dont worry about it, there is nothing you can do about people who wont accept "new kids". As for the homeroom thing, sometimes its better not having homeroom. You get a better variety of people to meet. Dont worry about friends, just be yourself and you will meet people. Most of the time some of the greatest friends are ones you met because you sat next to them in a class. To calm yourself down, what works for me is remember that I have no control really over the situation so I shouldnt be worrying and just breath deeply and relax. Your not going to make instant friends for life the first day, but you will meet people and become used to high school rather quickly, especially when you have a lot of work to destract you. Relax. This is coming from a high school sophmore, I know what your going through.
2006-09-04 13:10:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there were clubs at the school i went too that was GSA (Gay Straight Alliance) and there will be your friends to stick up for you if someone would be that ignorant to beat you up over your sexual preference, and btw, high school is NOTHING like it seems. I live in the outskirts of Chicago and yeah some people got bullied, but sounds like you have friends? The gay kids at my old high school (home schooled now) had the most friends. its not like there are "clicks" only in lunch SOMETIMES. just stick with your friends and don't mess with nobody you cant take! good luck.
2016-03-26 22:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that you're not alone! I can guarantee you -- there'll be a few other people there like yourself who are new, and nervous like you! Be friendly, be open, and you'll find people to help you and be friendly towards you.
Everyone else will be excited about the start of the new year, and will be too concerned about themselves, to give you a hard time! So, be casual. Smile, and say hi to someone. Just relax!
2006-09-04 13:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by Joya 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sure, some of the kids will have friends, but many of them won't be in classes with their friends either. You are all in much the same boat. Don't stress yourself about. You've made friends before, it will happen again.
2006-09-04 13:07:33 · answer #5 · answered by Magic One 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just focus on doing well in school. join a club that interests you.
stop worrying about other people and trying to be part of the in crowd.
what's important to you, getting good grades in school or being popular?
2006-09-04 13:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by imlaura2006 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i started high school this year too.
first, if your worried abou the size, and geting lost, everybody gets lost. you won't be the only one.
as for meeting people, you might have one person in most of your classes. and once you get your class schedule, introduce yourself to people in your classes, and ask them what lunch they have. your going to have to make the first move, not them
so good luck and dont get too nervous
2006-09-04 13:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by xxcowsgomoo724xx 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Please don't laugh at me for this suggestion. But, my brothers and I, as well-traveled Army dependents, went to a new school almost every year. I never cared at all about school sports, but, on the first day of school, I always artfully painted my face the school colors. The "cheerful, cocky school spirit" look is ALWAYS a success. It's fun, it makes friends quickly, and, oddly, the paint is like a mask. I wasn't so self-conscious about how "I" looked, because I was sorta hiding in a "costume". Be bold. You'll survive. Good luck, kid. Use protection. (Please add a comment here on this question later this week, just giving a few words about how your first few days of high school went for you.)
2006-09-04 13:26:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Take a 2 mile jog before school. Maybe 4 miles. Come back take a shower. You'll be all refreshed and you'll lose ALOT OF STRESS before school. :) Oh yeah...and SMILE ALOT. :)
2006-09-04 13:07:59 · answer #9 · answered by skoosh_me 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I have found that prayer works. Spend some time just praying and asking for peace....and it will come....
2006-09-04 13:05:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋