my older sister brough home a b/f that spent the night at our house and they were shareing the same bed and he wet the bed with her in it. and my mom got freaked out, kicked him out, because she had no idea that he was there to begin with, and after she kicked him out she went to wash the covers and one big a.ss pee stain. do u think my mom over reacted. and what adive would i give to my sister, and should she keep dating this bed wetter?
this is all real, my younger sister had a sick day home from school and witnessed it all.
2006-09-04 12:31:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
my sister is 19
and her b/f is 18
and he did wet the bed after being an aclochic from drinking a large a.ss amout of vodka, it was i think 99 prof.
2006-09-04 12:37:24 · update #1
Are you sure he wet the bed with urine and not with some other bodily fluid? There can be a lot of wetness after sex and that sure would make your mom angry.
Peace!
2006-09-04 12:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't state how old your older sister is. If she's 18-21 yrs. of age, I guess she's free to date whomever she wishes.
As for her having him in bed with her at your mom's house, that's another matter. Your mom's house rules apply in this matter.
If I found out that my daughter's b./f. had wet the bed in my home, I would have been very upset too.
As for advice for you to give your sister, I think this is something she has to work out herself, but be a big brother & help her if she asks for it, be it advice or a shoulder to cry on.
The bed wetter needs professional help that he has to get himself from someone that's trained in finding the core problem as to why he's still wetting to bed as an adult.
If your sister wants to continue dating this person, that's her decision & no-one else's if she's an adult.
Well good-luck to both you & your family.****R./Cat.>>
2006-09-04 20:06:32 · answer #2 · answered by REBELCAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, sure, she has a right to kick him out if its her house and she didn't approve.
Second, about the wetting. Let's get serious. It could have been that he was drinking too much (and therefore sleeping very soundly) - which occurs more often than you think. Or, perhaps a sign of something else such as a bladder infection or other medical condition. If it wasn't from the drinking I hope he sees a doctor for help.
Your Friendly Pharmacist....
2006-09-08 18:09:50 · answer #3 · answered by Friendly Pharmacist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do I think your mom overreacted...no....do you??? What if you were the parent and your daughter brought home a guy without your knowledge and the same thing happened???!!
I would have never disrespected my parents home or rules like that...plus the guy had to be really drunk to have lost that much control...your sister is lucky he did not puke on her as well. I would not be seen with that person again, but that is your sister's decision to make.
If he's this "cool" now wait until he gets older..maybe he'll be a bum or in jail for drunk driving.
2006-09-04 19:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by thedothanbelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's your mom's house then she has the right to say who stays. This big guy should wear Depends if he wets the bed. Pee stains don't ever come out of a mattress.
2006-09-04 19:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by Mombearz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister should dump him, and no your mom didn't over react. I would of freaked out too if my daughter had a man in her bed in my house. Plus after you kick him out you have to clean up pee. That is WRONG.
2006-09-04 19:40:08 · answer #6 · answered by mommy@18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a more important question is about having a "sleep-over" in your parents home without their knowledge. The wetting incident is just a side note that adds to flavour that these "kids" are too young to be having sex if they are still at home and wetting beds.
2006-09-04 19:44:33 · answer #7 · answered by I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest to your sister that the b/f has a urology problem and needs to seek help ASAP and the next thing is he needs to pay for a new mattress because if there was no mattress pad the pee smell will linger.
2006-09-04 19:34:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister broke every house rule in 1 night and you wonder if MOM over reacted?
2006-09-05 12:19:02 · answer #9 · answered by patweb01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother did the right thing. Why should she have to clean up some stranger's mess? All that after finding out he slept with her daughter.
2006-09-04 19:35:37 · answer #10 · answered by eddie_schaap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋