My girlfriend is great and we have a great relationship, however she has been with a lot of people in her past (a lot more than me). I don't see anything particularly wrong with it, I just get sidetracked sometimes in my thoughts and think of her with them and it makes me sick to my stomach thinking of her with someone else, even the thought of it. Is there anyway you guys know how to move past this?
2006-09-04 12:31:42 · 6 answers · asked by dontdoit! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
REALIZE THAT EVEN AFTER SHE HAS BEEN AROUND AND EXERIENCED MANY GUYS......SHE PICKED YOU!!!!
YOU!
YOU!
YOU!
DON'T YOU FEEL MORE SPECIAL?
YOU WON HER HEART, AFTER MANY HAVE TRIED, UNSUCCESSFULLY. SHE PICKED YOU!
ACCEPT HER PAST AS A PART OF HER, AND THANK THOSE GUYS FOR TEACHING HER MORE ABOUT HERSELF, AND DISCOVERING WHAT SHE REALLY WANTS.....YOU!
YOU ARE THE BEST THING SHE'S EVER HAD, THAT'S WHY SHE PICKED YOU!
YOU OUTSHINE ALL OTHERS TO HER. BE PROUD OF YOURSELF. JUST REMEMBER TO KEEP TREATING HER LIKE YOUR #1 CHOICE, AND TAKE CARE OF HER EMOTIONAL NEEDS.
2006-09-04 12:46:33 · answer #1 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Past is past. Perhaps she has gained experience enough to make your present relationship better (rather than make any mistakes with you, she has hopefully learned from her past). If you must worry about her being with someone else, concentrate on the present. Because if you over-agonize, you could very well push her away from you.
Stop worrying and learn to channel your energy into making the relationship spark and sizzle, instead of risking that it park and fizzle . . .
2006-09-04 19:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by alchemist0750 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop thinking about all that..... all that matters is that she is with >YOU<....... Look my b/f and I have been dating for 12 months. About 4 months after we starting dating he told me how many people he had slept with and pfffff...... its a lot no I mean a lot..... like way in the 100's and ya know what I don't care because all that really matters to me is that he is sleeping with me and only me! All that other stuff is in the past. I love him so much!
2006-09-04 19:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by KaseyLaine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow dats some deep ****** up **** dude ur gurl gittin ****** u should be pissed and tell her how u feel man happend 2 me its called jeluosy
2006-09-04 19:36:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just imagine what she think of you and your ex's
2006-09-04 19:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by Evil Homer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember...it all happened before she met you.
2006-09-04 19:35:16 · answer #6 · answered by all1g8r 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋