well all my friends are no longer virgins and are 17 or 18 and im still a virgin.. do girls like that or does that make me prude? because im insecure
2006-09-04 12:07:11 · 9 answers · asked by Jarred 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
is something wrong with me? i mean i have came across this oppurtunity several times and everytime its always been just someone i met that night, and my friends keep telling me to do it, but i dont want to because it doesnt feel right meeting someone and then doing it hte first night... would you say im prude because of this?
2006-09-04 12:14:12 · update #1
Stay true to yourself. You will know when the right one comes along. Unless you are doing it, just to have done it, then what's the rush.
There is nothing wrong with you or your attitude. Guys can be cruel and goad you into things, but you be your own man.
2006-09-04 12:15:46 · answer #1 · answered by damsel36 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do what your friends tell you to do just because you want to fit in. In all likelyhood, most of them won't have done half of what they say they have done anyway.
It's not a big issue. When you're 17 it might seem like the end of the world, but if you are still a virgin and you hit your 20s, it seems like the smallest thing then. If the guys are making fun of you, it's just because of their own insecurities!
My suggestion is that you wait until the time is right - when YOU decide, not your friends. You should care about what girls think and not your friends! I think most girls will really respect you for waiting and those that don't... don't bother with them!
2006-09-04 20:06:13 · answer #2 · answered by Reenie83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is your decision. Some girls do and some do not depending on there preference but it seems like you are heading to college in a year or so and you might want to get some practice before but if you just want to wait, it is your decision do not let peer pressure into the mix.
2006-09-04 19:10:57 · answer #3 · answered by Truth Seeker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like it, or at least i do. I wanna date/marry a guy that is a virgin, because i'm going to stay a virgin. Don't give in to pressure, your cool because your saving yourself for the right one.
2006-09-04 19:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by dimondbacks7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is really cool of you to be the way you are. trust me a few years from now or soon when you find the love of your life you are going to be happy that you waited cause now you have something special to share with her. i would love to have my man be a virgin it would just be so special and just so perfect! some girls are differnt though and thats just them you shouldnt care as long as you are happy with your decision. i say stay like the way you are until you find someone that loves you and that you love back!
2006-09-04 19:29:20 · answer #5 · answered by la_gurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 16, not some old lady, just so u'll know. But I don't think u should give in if u don't wanna & thats so gross if u did that after just meeting that girl. Alotta girls like that cuz we know that you haven't been messing around wit alotta girls.
2006-09-04 19:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by native_american_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not at all... if you dont feel comf doin it then you shouldnt because if u do sumtn then your the one thats gunna feel like crap about it not anyone else
2006-09-04 21:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by ashlyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I PROMISE, once you start you going to wish you never started:~)
2006-09-04 19:21:55 · answer #8 · answered by jacktownfinest2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your time and no rush...you will know when the time is right
2006-09-04 19:09:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋