Is it true that women that cannot reach climax have bad luck in finding a good guy or keeping a guy than a women who can reach climax? Does it really matter if a women can orgasm? Do most guys look for that in a women?
2006-09-04 11:47:39 · 24 answers · asked by Lessons_in_life10 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is prolly true as far as KEEPING a guy.
2006-09-04 11:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by Pseudo Obscure 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Men feel that if they cannot give a woman an orgasm they are failing in the relationship and it deflates their ego. Some men do not care and both parties lose because of it. Any women can orgasm if enough foreplay, attention and technique is provided by the male. If a woman finds she cannot climax with her partner then she needs to communicate that to him and reach an understanding on what it takes for her to be satisfied also.
2006-09-04 18:55:26 · answer #2 · answered by daydoom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its not like they can tell by looking at you . but I'm sure it would probably make him feel like more of a man if hey could get you there. and if he feels good hes more likely to want to stick around.and i think when you climax you feel better too, so both of you feel good and i think it does matter because it makes you closer in the relationship, because if you don't get there that's no fun is it. and that can cause you to have built up tension so if you cant you should figure out how to , you'll have a much more relaxed relationship.good luck.
2006-09-04 18:57:15 · answer #3 · answered by L.A. WOMAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a common misconception, and likely one of the reasons women sometimes choose to fake an orgasm; bolstering the man's ego, confidence, etc.
No, real men don't shy away from women that cannot always achieve an orgasm during intercourse. And faking it doesn't help him or you, you know what works for you better than he does, tell him and the results might just surprise you.
Even if you don't achieve orgasms during intercourse, if you are able to achieve one by yourself (vib. etc.) that might shed some light on what helpful hints to give your partner so that you can achieve them with him as well. Communication is key.
2006-09-04 18:58:49 · answer #4 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they normally don't care and don't feel it unless they're very intuned to your body so i don't think it makes any difference in getting or keeping a guy if you can reach climax or not.
now if you were asking about getting and keeping a guy based on whether or not you could make them climax, i'd say you'd have a valid point.
guys pay atttention to your partner. ;)
2006-09-04 18:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by littleminx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its just completely opposite of me if a woman cant its something i have a hard time wrapping my head around. like how can you have sex with out the finish. seems real fustrating. but as long as the girl didnt lie and told me out right it could almost be benificial. but not a deal breaker in the beginning but if i didnt know and she never did climax then i would feel that i had failed in some way.
2006-09-04 18:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not?? I'm not sure I can answer this question because I've never been with a women who couldn't climax. The one's that said they couldn't eventually did because I showed them how and they were very thankful for it. VERY THANKFUL!!!!!!
2006-09-04 18:53:36 · answer #7 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all they care about is sex, they are an idiot. Everyone can climax but it takes the right guy to get them there.
2006-09-04 18:49:55 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs.Foster 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Few guys know or care if the woman is satisfied. It really doesn't make any difference in "getting a guy." Whatever that means.
If you're concerned that it matters, you can fake it, and 9 out of 10 men can't tell anyway.
2006-09-04 18:49:53 · answer #9 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ALL women are capable of climaxing.
That being said. I can't imagine why this would have anything to do with a man falling in love with a woman or visa versa.
2006-09-04 18:52:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey im only 13 years old but my opinion is yea most guys do look 4 that in a woman cuz ima kid(still a virgin) and mad boys ask me if i wanna have sex i dont even really no them i be like umm y u like that they all like cuz its fun exspecally when they start shivering and stuff
2006-09-04 18:51:58 · answer #11 · answered by saphira 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋