2006-09-04 11:32:46 · 7 answers · asked by patty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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He should wait as long as he feels he needs to. If he's a good dad, he'll know the right time.
Don't pressure him. His kids should be his #1 priority.
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2006-09-04 11:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this depends on the situation with the divorce and how old the kids are. If his kids are young and are taking the divorce badly, he might want to wait a while before introducing you as his girlfriend. You need to just be patient, because this type of thing can be really hard on kids.
2006-09-04 11:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband told his child he had a g/friend after we been together a month (her mother had already moved in with new b/friend)by this point for a while, i wished we had left it longer looking back mayb 3 mnths would have been better b/cause they were still going through divorce and its hard on kids at a time like this
2006-09-04 11:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by sarah71397 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question of while to start up relationship is thoroughly in keeping with once you in my view sense waiting. What i may be careful approximately is honestly bringing any dates or skill boyfriends around the youngsters. You going out to dinner and a action picture is one element and you have each and every suitable to try this as quickly as you sense gentle doing it. For me, i think of i may be maximum gentle with assembly my date someplace extremely than him coming to my abode the place my little ones have been. If after time I felt this is a protracted term relationship or could desire to become something greater extreme, i might slowly introduce him to my little ones. in spite of the shown fact that, each and every guy you consume dinner with isn't unavoidably somebody your babies could desire to fulfill and approve of. you're entitled to a social life. bear in concepts that. possible be a great mom and characteristic a life, too. Older little ones could be very judgmental while it involves divorced mum and dad relationship. this is tough for them to settle for that mom and pa are by way of and moving on. even while they say they understand, i don't think of they actually do. Deep down, they harbor some small desire which you will reconcile and their kinfolk would be intact as quickly as greater. you're able to desire to be information of their thoughts, yet on the comparable time you're able to desire to allow your self to pass on and locate happiness. this is a complicated stability, exceedingly for mothers. anticipate some jealousy from the youngsters and be responsive to that no remember who you're able to date, they at the instant are not likely to love him or the reality which you're relationship in the start. you only could desire to take it sluggish and make the attempt to describe your thoughts to them. they'll understand and settle for it. sturdy success to you!
2016-10-01 07:45:48 · answer #4 · answered by eilermann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I need more info. How long have has he been dating you? If he was dating you while he was married, tsk..tsk..on you....
2006-09-04 11:35:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
five seconds
2006-09-04 11:42:40 · answer #6 · answered by veerfish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he is sure he will be marrying her.
2006-09-05 05:18:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋