either with spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend. And for how long?
2006-09-04 11:15:17 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ultimately you can not carry on a affair without any type of detection... it causes a lot of issues with your spouse that you are married to .. especially lack of communication. You tend to withdraw yourself. If you are thinking about cheating, then do yourself a favor and leave the current relationship.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-04 11:17:45 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to declare i don't think of so the two. i'm against divorce, yet he carried on an affair it became not a one night fling/twist of fate. And the circumstances you hit redial and found her variety shows evidence, i understand you do not prefer to have faith it yet you notice the evidence precise on your face. i'm particular he became clever sufficient to not use the cellular telephone returned through fact he became caught final time. and that i relatively doubt that he hung up as quickly as somebody responded. Why could he call? through fact he nonetheless has emotions for her and desires to proceed the affair, or he in no way ended it interior the 1st place. I understand you like your husband yet he's not the guy you concept he became. a guy that would save on an affair..until he have been given caught then swear on everyones lives, i think of he's a liar and a cheater and that i think of he will say even though he can so which you will not go away him.
2016-11-24 21:43:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but it was when I was in high school and I think it was God's way of showing me that there are better people out in this world who would treat me better and I was just fooling myself staying in a relationship I was unhappy in. Cheating is a waste of time. Also, I learned instead of being a liar, fooling around with someone and sneaking around someones back, which was making me miserable from the guilt, the best thing to do is go for what I want and leave the person alone if I am not happy with them. I am happy God showed me this lesson because it has made me a happier and a more honest person when it comes to relationships.
2006-09-04 11:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and I never would. It might not be today and it might not be this year, but at some point it will come back to bite you. You might not realize this, but in the back of your mind, you will be asking yourself is this the day that she finds out.
From what I have read especially on here, usually carrying on an affair for a long period of time involves getting other people to lie for you. At some point one of those people will probably crack and end up spilling the beans on what's going on.
2006-09-04 11:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by Jason 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most people get caught in one form or the other. Spouses generally know, or find out. It happened to me.
2006-09-04 12:29:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I have never had an affair, but I have a friend who did. And she didn't get caught. But the guilt ate at her for years. She couldn't sleep and she finally got sick with a bad illness. The doctor told her that guilt can actually make you sick. So, unless you are a sociopath, don't do it.
2006-09-04 11:20:00 · answer #6 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes, for 9 years. You have to really know who your getting involved with and have an understanding of your relationship.
2006-09-04 12:42:58 · answer #7 · answered by petethefunk 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Three years
2006-09-04 11:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I did, my boyfriend and I were on hiatus and i met this guy who was the bouncer at a club. We messed around for about 2 months. Sex is off the chain...the bouncer's d--- is off the chain.
And his girfriend is none the wiser.
2006-09-04 11:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
No have you. do you love your spouse if so why cheat? If you don't love them let them go don't cheat.
2006-09-04 12:12:10 · answer #10 · answered by daddycoop74 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋