You are a good person. there are other people out there for u. I say you get ova him and get someone that will treat u right
2006-09-04 11:11:39
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answered by Mariah p 1
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It's natural to feel the way you do but first you need to think of yourself as a queen. See queens don't take garbage so you shouldn't. You need to not let his attitude influence your moving on to other people. You shouldn't call him cuz if he picks up he's gonna end up tryna explain himself and he's gonna lie again. Evry time you feel like call think about all the bad things he's done and will happen if you get back together. He obviously doesn't care about or is thinkin about your feelings so shouldn't about his. You doin the right thing right now. But jus get over him, but u shouldn't avoid him to much cuz then your feelings for him will come back or you wouldn't b comfortable around him.
2006-09-04 11:19:06
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answered by Chelly luv 2
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Why do you feel that you must fix this? Why must you be the one to cave in when you have done nothing wrong. You don't need to go out and find another person you need to take care of yourself and figure out why you believed his lies. You can't tell me that there is not a part of you that actually questioed them when he first started telling you lies. You know when youa re being lied to.
Everyone makes choices and in a relationship it takes 2 to make it or break it. If you want to be with someone who has lied to yuou then by all means pick up the phone and call him. Tell him you miss him and you love him what ever..........
If you want to be happy and in love again you need to look into yourself.....love yourself........care about yourself......and eventually you will find love that does not lie or hurt you. But you are only responsible for yourself and your actions NOT HIS!!
2006-09-04 11:17:11
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answered by Anonymous
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Please work on getting to love yourself. You have become dependent upon a person who is toxic to you. The more you cling to this person, the more you will hurt.
Make up a list of the attributes you're most proud of. Change your life so that you can add more attributes to the list. After a while, you will begin to realize that you no longer depend on others to determine your self worth.
When you reach the point at which you will truly love yourself, nasty friends -- boy friends, girl friends -- will be mere memories. You'll begin to attract people who deserve you because you will have raised your expectations of yourself and others.
You will never, ever again entertain the notion that a person who lies to you and plays with your feelings deserves you.
2006-09-04 11:22:55
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answered by jackbutler5555 5
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You really deserve better so dry up the eyes, don't listen to any sad music for awhile and get on the phone with some girlfriends. Go out and keep busy, time will fly by and if it is meant to be then @ least you let him know that you have other activities besides him. Good Luck
2006-09-04 11:13:57
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answered by Anonymous
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properly, that incredibly relies upon on what denomination of Christian you're talking approximately. i think of with the Catholics, a minimum of, that's ok as long as that's previous your 0.33 cousin. i think of maximum different religions merely wade by that rule, too, yet i'm no longer completely particular. i comprehend that that's what i became taught. There ought to additionally be state rules approximately marriage to a cousin specifically states, so which you're able to desire to to ascertain that out.
2016-09-30 08:28:21
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answered by esannason 4
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sounds to me like he screwed up but as it was put to me once or twice there are a lot of other fish in the sea that would probably treat you a lot better.
2006-09-04 11:17:51
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answered by rangerider223 2
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if he doesn't care about you and lied to you a lot he is a loser . you don't need him for anything. leave it be. find a real guy .
2006-09-04 11:12:10
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answered by StarShine G 7
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He's an @$$hole, don't lower your self-value. Good people don't play with people's feelings.
2006-09-04 11:12:08
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answered by Liquid Cherry Blood 1
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he's the one who should call!
keep yourself away from the phone.If you'll call him he'll think that you'll call him or return to him everytime he did something bad or wrong.
don't call him.
2006-09-04 11:13:08
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answered by mia 1
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