My friend does not want to go to school tomorrow because of her breast size. We are starting 9th grade in High School and she is afraid that other people will make fun of her. Her breast size is 34 A and she is tall. 5 feet 5 inches. I keep saying that no one will make fun of her and everything will be great, but she just does not want to listen.
Thanks in advance!!
2006-09-04 10:59:14 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Kids, unfortunately will find something to pick on - even on the prettiest or most handsome children. The best advice which got me through school, and is now getting my 8 year old through school is to show absolutely no emotion if being made fun of. Kids can be mean, but when there is no reaction, they stop. If she does get made fun of and it goes to extremes, there is also many "Bully Laws" in effect around the USA. I used the above way in my first year of middle school, and by high school i was one of the kids that was standing up for the ones being made fun of. And i was not ugly or awkward, neither is my daughter.. like i said, kids always find something to pick on. It will be hard for her if she is picked on to ignore it. I told my daughter when she was picked on that the only reason they are picking on her is because they may be jealous, and to just grin and enjoy that someone is jealous of her beautiful smile. That worked a miracle in itself!! And 5'5 with A in 9th grade is normal from what i have seen, and when i was in school.
2006-09-04 11:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by Vita 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh, it will be fine especially because she is starting highschool. Since she's tall, she will just look like a sophomore or junior instead of a freshman! And I have to say, 34A is an absolutely normal breast size for a freshman girl! Get a push up bra and *poof* your a B. And, instead of worrying about prepubescent freshman boys, she can go for the junior hotties! All the other freshman girls will be jealous...don't worry just get ready to enjoy some of the best years of your life! And be careful.
2006-09-04 18:08:07 · answer #2 · answered by acage123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So is my sister and she's about to go to ...well she did already... college. She can't let that get in the way of her education right now. That's why there's padded bras and push up bras now. Tell her to wear shirts that make her breast look more full. Like patterns which create illusions. Or tops with ruffles at the top.
2006-09-04 18:03:12 · answer #3 · answered by Broken-Hearted 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel bad for her but she is who she is. all u got to do is sit down and talk to her and tell her that size is not everything. I would rather take a girl for her personality than her breast size
2006-09-04 18:08:01 · answer #4 · answered by mhsportsfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should tell your friend that it does not matter what everyone else says about her breast cause god made her perfect in his eyes and she should be happy with the way she looks and if any one but her or her bf is looking at them she should tell them not to be a pervert. p.s. most models have breast that size think everyone is different for a reason, bless you
2006-09-04 18:07:19 · answer #5 · answered by me not u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend she is the perfect version of her to date. That she should be proud of herself for who she is. Remind her that she must be someone very special because she has you for a friend.
There is so much more to person than their breast size (big breasts are overrated and create a whole other set of issues).
You are both wonderful beautiful young people that deserve much happiness.
Light!
2006-09-04 18:06:20 · answer #6 · answered by JFC I No 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is your friend looking for boys to look at her because of her breast? Tell your friend that if that's what she worried about, tell her that boys are a dime a dozen and if it like that then she doesn't need them around her.
Tell her that boys need to think about her mind and not her body.
And on top of that , she needs to love what she has and not what someone wants her to have.
2006-09-04 18:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by swilliams63@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend she is being harder on herself than anyone else will likely be....(take it from me) the key is for her to play up the assets about herself that are positives. above all, the best asset is confidence. if your friend walks around acting self-conscious about her body--- any part--- it will only draw attention to the matter and point out her faults to others like a big flashing neon sign. ---pass it on and good luck.
2006-09-04 18:08:47 · answer #8 · answered by rdhtone! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her is not a big deal...i'm 34B, i'm 25 and doing great!! at least she is tall...She will be ok.
And if she studies she will not need such a big bra cup. Believe me she will survive the high school
2006-09-04 18:04:08 · answer #9 · answered by fireangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ppl who wud make fun are morons, and I'm pretty sure nobody will unless they r too mean, she's still growing so I am sure her boobs will ger bigger, tell her to eat carrots to make them bigger and to wear pushup bras, boobs aren;t everything in the world, if she is a nice person then nuthing is the problem, she'll get guys and friends, i bet she is pretty and a nice person
2006-09-04 18:02:58 · answer #10 · answered by Preeya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋