1.)do not smoke or drink? (since i observe that a lot of gays do smoke or drink, but i dont)
2.)do not like leather stuff? (i dont know, i like casual/skater stuff more)
3.) do not quite like anal sex, but enjoy oral?
2006-09-04 10:52:25 · 31 answers · asked by Travis 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sounds fairly normal.
I used to smoke, but my partner never did. I drink very rarely, but my partner cannot due to health reasons. Everyone has their own likes and dislikes and many people make good and bad health choices.
The one thing that remains is that these things are actually choices.
Our sexuality is not.
2006-09-04 11:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by DEATH 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Based on my own personal experience...
I fit into two of the three. I smoke and drink like a fish. However, I HATE leather stuff and fail to see the point (maybe I'm too skinny, not old enough, and have too little body hair). And the whole anal sex thing is so overrated -- there's too much prep time if you want to be clean -- even if you take a shower and scrub real good down there it can still come out messy! So I guess, aside from drinking and smoking, I lose some gay points.
2006-09-04 18:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by Sean 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You do not need to justify your likes or dislikes by the word "normal." There is NO normal, there are choices in all this. Gays smoke at about the same rate as straights...18-19% of the population, but with Gays, it is a closet thing, at best (forgive the pun, but that is what I have noticed)..when I have guys over, no talk of smoking ever comes up, but when I light up, lord, the cigarettes come flying out!
Drinking? Personal thing again...I drink very lightly, do not enjoy being high on alcohol...but I have no problems with others, unless they are drunk..cannot get into drunks what so ever.
Leather: fine with me, not a life style, but have been know to wear it if I am in the mood...just a game to me
Anal or oral...personal tastes that change with the partner...I get off anyway that is offered. Big deal.
2006-09-04 17:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm gay and to answer your questions I don't drink or smoke, I don't like leather stuff. I ride motorcycle so I do wear leather jacket,but don't use leather in sex. I love anal as well as oral and I am a bottom so I am on the receiving end.
2006-09-05 05:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by wantit27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude,
To each is there own. Sounds like a little stereotype in there to me. Just because a guy is gay does not mean they have to smoke, drink, or have anal sex.
Everything listed above is based upon an individual basis.
That to me is like saying that every African American has to pay basketball.
You choose whether you want to smoke, which I highly advise against it for health reason. Or drink, again heath reasons.
When it comes to sex, you do what you are comfortable with, and do not let anyone else change that.
2006-09-09 11:04:05 · answer #5 · answered by Brad B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes to all of the above. There are many gay communities, not one.
I don't smoke or drink or do drugs, I don't do leather or b and d stuff. Anal is ok, but I'm not into it much, except to do what Jonathan needs -- but I love oral.
and I know a lot of other people like that, so yeah, it is.
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2006-09-04 22:58:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal not to smoke or drink or like leather stuff and to not like anal sex. It do not smoke or drink, I do not like leather and I most definitely do not like anal sex never even tried but I do love oral sex. I am a lesbian.
2006-09-04 18:02:01 · answer #7 · answered by Necole 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are the epitome of what every good guy should be. If you are a queen, then you are the abomination of what every ugly guy should not be. Let's leave the foolishness to the turds. All you have to do now is eat some pusssy, and you are well on your way to becoming close to wanting to become a lesbian. You will be the ultimate good guy, then, after you steal a ho away from a turd. Make sure you give her a 24-hour-long intense and explosive orgasm. You will be a better good guy, and she'll forget all about her turd. Remember that it's great (or alright) to be a gay person. It's so much better than being a turd. Everything that you have just mentioned in your question is considered as heterosexually gay. You are definitely not heterosexually gay unless you are a queen. You are a ******' good guy!
P.S. Fellatio is slutty, whorish, pornographic, and disgusting. Grotesque! Don't ever perform fellatio. Work to make fellatio illegal! Criminalize cockksuckers! Cocksuckkers are whores that need to repent!
2006-09-04 18:47:06 · answer #8 · answered by fieldscharlie 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You sound like me but the only different is I'm bi. It's funny when I say I'm bi to some people the first thing that comes out is the anal jokes and stuff and when I say some Bi/Gay guys are not into that they look shocked, so I'm glad to hear I'm not alone with being the way I am...
:)
2006-09-04 17:57:50 · answer #9 · answered by Super 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal
2006-09-04 18:06:45 · answer #10 · answered by tammidee10 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋