2006-09-04 10:32:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm not being rude when I say this. If you only have feelings for men you are Gay
If you have feelings for both men and women you are Bi
if you have feelings for women you are straight.
Remember no matter what you are, it's OK
:)
2006-09-04 10:39:52 · answer #1 · answered by Super 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well since I don't know your reasons for *wanting* to decipher your sexuality, I would have to say you will know in time.
Please don't rush into thinking you have to label yourself, that is what they do with most children growing up thinking they are straight.
Go with your heart, if you fall in love with a guy then pursue it, counter wise if you fall in love with a lady then I am happy for you.
Other wise, you will just feel terrible worring about if 'that is gay' or 'Am I gay?' you will pass up possibilities that you will regret later.
I hope it helps!
~Roger
2006-09-04 17:42:33 · answer #2 · answered by vainpeacock 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is there some reason to be in a hurry?
At some point you'll know whether your gay, straight, or bi. The less you stress on it, the more what you are will become clear to you.
2006-09-05 01:16:12 · answer #3 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I label myself as a lesbian because I am in a relationship with a woman. But I do not believe that you have to have one of these labels. The heart wants what it wants. Just be happy with the person you love, and let the rest go. You will be happier if you just don't let the logistics of it bother you.
2006-09-08 01:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by Robin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decipher? Did you write it down and now are unable to read it?
2006-09-06 20:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can answer that question. and many of us DO spend some time confused about our feelings (because of how society feels about us and treats us). but in the end, you will realize if you are attracted to men, or to women, or even to both.
society is too preoccupied with labeling and categorizing everyone, it's true. but only you can say who you are.
2006-09-04 21:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure I'll get a thumbs up for this, but gay people are born that way.
You can't control what attracts you.
It's what attracts you that makes your sexual orientation.
Straight people don't understand that, but then again, they can't explain when they decided to be straight either.
2006-09-04 17:59:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I think your sexuality will decipher you.
2006-09-04 17:43:12 · answer #8 · answered by Rustic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By figuring out who you are sexually attracted to. Same -sex attraction = Gay Opposite sex attraction=Straight. Both=bisexual.
2006-09-04 17:35:01 · answer #9 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im sure to get a thumbs down for this, but all people are born straight, only possible exception xxy chromisone people yay us. this being said, if you find yourself fantasizing about being with guys your about as queer as a 3 doller bill
Tommy Blue- no one can tell you because its natural.
I will give this born crock some value if they admit its more choice than birth. Think serial killers, they are born with the potential for it, but its outside culture and choice that made them who they are.
2006-09-04 17:48:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋