why won't my wife have a threesome with me and her very sexy very beauitful girlfriend?

Question

All i ask for is to phuck her girlfriend while she watches, but she keeps saying noway. Why?

Answer 1

Man you are so dumb. would you let her have sex with one of your very sexy very handsome buddys?
Stupid as.s

Answer 2

First, your wife is very uncomfortable with the idea of you having sex with someone she considers to be a friend because this will change their friendship AND it will take your marriage to a whole other level she is not emotionally or psychologically prepared to handle. As much as a threesome may be a turn on for some people, male and female included, not everyone is prepared to handle its emotional ramifications. The sex may be great in the moment but once it is over with and people have had a chance to think about what they've done, it can and usually does bring up a whole slew of emotions that people are scared to address. If she is a religious woman, she may feel shame in what she has allowed you to do. Even if she isn't particularly religious, allowing you to proceed may force her to question her life with you and your sexuality as a couple, and it may make her feel dirty.

Once sex enters the picture friendships do change and can end. If this woman is a close friend of hers the fact that you want to sleep with her will now cause your wife to feel jealous of this friend AND threatened by her. If you do sleep with this woman I can guarantee the friendship between the two of them will be over. Your wife is simply too uncomfortable with the idea. Your wanting to have sex with this woman brings up your wife's feelings of insecurity and self doubt that she has about herself in general (as most women do), and now that you want to sleep with her friend she is feeling insecure in her relationship with you. I can bet you dollars to donuts she is already wondering if you have cheated on her before or if not that, is wondering if you still find her desirable.

Secondly, from what I have read, you are the one that wants to do this and you expect that your wife will want to sit there and watch you have sex with her friend. Anytime couples want to explore their sexuality beyond the norm, both parties have to agree to be on the EXACT same game page and MUST define rules about what they can and cannot handle and what they expect from the other. With all due respect to you, unless she has actively agreed to be the voyeur in the situation, this is not a threesome, actually. It is really a two-some that you want to act on independent of her needs. By asking her to watch you are justifying your lust for the other woman and calling it a threesome, when in fact it is more of an affair while your wife looks on. If it was a threesome she would be involved with you both. In effect you are taking away her right to decide what she does and doesn't want to do. How would you feel - in all honesty - if your wife approached you and told you that she wanted to have sex with a male friend of yours while you watched? The idea may be a turn on from a fantasy level, but if you were told that all you could do was watch (and had no say in the matter) then you would not be a happy camper, would you? Basically, you have left her out of the loop and that's not fun.

There may be other reasons why she is not into doing this. For one, sleeping with or being in the same room with you and another woman may bring up issues she has about bisexuality. If she is a staunch heterosexual, being in the same room with another woman may make her feel really uncomfortable. She may wonder about her own sexuality, and if that is the case, she is pretty freaked out by this.

Talk to her about this and allow her to share her feelings with you. Be respectful and mindful of her needs, and if she chooses not to do this, then you can't do it either. It wouldn't be fair and would most assuredly cause your relationship to end. What is more important? Your marriage or a sexual foray that makes your wife uptight?

Best wishes.

Answer 3

Her girlfriend is um HER GIRLFRIEND....She may not want to drooling over her intimate moments with girl. Plus her other girl may not like the idea either. Lesbians are not a sideshow!!
When are men gonna work that out?? I don't run up to every gay couple I see and ask them to get it on, so that I can watch/take pictures/masturbate!! Leave them alone...This is obviously a private relationship.

Answer 4

Would you want your wife to have sex with your friend or boss? Oh yeah, while you watch. If you have a wife, be true to your vows to her, love her. I'm kind of old fashion though, I want my woman for me only, and only her, you need to question your relationship, or maybe your wife should question your relationship.

Answer 5

you dont deserve yout wife,i hope she dumps your dumb ***.

Answer 6

i wonder why too