ok so....theres this situation and me and one of my guy friends have been friends for a while and i think (every time i hang out with him) that he keeps staring at me and poking me and just joking around and im not comfy with it. i think he has a crush on me and thats not too good, i think coz he's a good friend but i wouldnt wanna take this to another level coz im only in 6th grade... so please help! what should i do?
2006-09-04 09:50:19 · 20 answers · asked by tewsimple 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i dont know for sure that he likes me but i have a pretty good idea...and he doesnt know i know he likes me so...
2006-09-04 09:54:54 · update #1
I'm in sixth grade too, and I was in the same situation until I just got used to being around him again+I found him a new girlfriend and told him I really enjoy being one of his best friends.
2006-09-04 09:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by Nanae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when he does things that make you feel awkward, just tell him that it's making you uncomfortable. If he's a good friend, then he'll understand. There's a chance that he might not have a crush on you, but if you ever get proof, just tell him kindly that you don't feel that way. He'll probably be bummed out for a while, because there's no easy way to tell sombody "just friends", but maybe he'll understand and you two can continue as you previously were.
2006-09-04 16:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by Bondy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably right in your assessment of the situation.
You are either going to have to tell him right out right that you are friends only or you will have to stop the relationship. You can do that all at once, or you can just start to slowly ease him out of your activities.
In any case, never feel that you have to do something you don't want to do and if you feel threatened or uneasy trust those feelings and get away.
2006-09-04 16:57:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you just wanna be friends unless you do like him then go out with him. I had alot of boyfriends WAY before the 6th grade.
2006-09-04 16:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by THAT GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with becoming boyfreind and girlfriend. However, you most certainly do not need to even consider anything physical with this boy. You are too young for all the headaches and heartaches of sex. But, friends make the BEST boyfriends/girlfreinds. No one knows us better and likes us in spite of our faults.
2006-09-04 16:53:25 · answer #5 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's crushing on you. Instead of telling him to back off, you're not interested...tell him you are interested in some guy, and ask him for advice. He'll either back off, or let you know he's into you. If that happens, then you can tell him you want to just remain friends.
2006-09-04 16:57:54 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Ma'am 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you have a problem with his behaviour and that all you want to be is JUST friends, and if he is not prepared to stop staring and poking you then you will be ending what friendship you have NOW. Be firm stand up for yourself.
2006-09-04 16:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just roll with it, or tell him how you feel. If you dont feel comfortable with him poking you, ask him to stop. If you are harsh with him he'll probably get the idea
2006-09-04 16:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont hang out with him. or say look stop poking me i dont like it if you keep doing it im not going to sit by you any more.
2006-09-04 16:52:09 · answer #9 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6th grade? You don't have to take this to any other level. Don't go anywhere alone with him. Talk to your parents or someone you trust.
2006-09-04 16:54:22 · answer #10 · answered by Computer Guy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋