my girl friend is preg.and she has also been cheating on me I don't know who the father is what do I do?

Answer 1

Depends on the state you live in. If the state you live in has a putative father registry, you should go submit your name. Then when the baby is born get a DNA test. The cost can range from 150 to 500 dollars depending on if you need a legally binding result.

Answer 2

I Would Say Go To The Maury Show When The Baby Is Born But.......
Wait Till The Baby Is Born And Then Get A DNA Test To Prove Whoz The Father......

Good Luck♥

Answer 3

First, she should not be your girlfriend anymore if you know for a fact that she is cheating... Second, you should wait until after the baby is born and request a paternity test so you know for a fact if this child is yours or not.... It may be that you truly love this girl, but if she is cheating than you need to be a man and learn that not always things go as plan and that there are times that part of being a man is having to let go and move on despite the fact that this may be killing you inside of pain and sorrow... Women, when they are pregnant will want and try to have their boyfriends and/or husbands to feel sorry for them, pregnancy is not a disability nor it can be used so a man can let them get away with murder... So let her go and wait until the child is born and obtain a paternity test and then, you can work on rebuilding your relationship if you still want to be with this girl...

Answer 4

I would stay w/ her and when the baby is born, get a dna test. If its yours, great. If not then think, do you love your girlfriend? can you get past her cheating on you? you could try to see a couples therapist if you want. But if its not yours, and she has no one else, then could you be a parent for this child and help your girl friend out? If you really love her then that would be the most unselfish thing to do. If it is yours, then you need to definitely step up and be a parent. Good luck! and I hope the baby is yours! :)

Answer 5

1) You can actually do a dna test on the foetus even before it was born. but why do you bother?

2) The fact that even if the child is yours, it may be because your sperm had enter the egg first BUT it does not mean that your girlfriend is a kopitiam toilet where it is available to other men.

If you are having this trouble with this now, what make you so sure that both of you could live up to 80 years old.

I guess perhaps you should just move on and find andother ship. that should be a lesson to her.

Answer 6

go for a DNA test. The Test result could determine whether u are the father of the child or not.

Test Result are normally above 80-90% accurate

Answer 7

Have to wait until the baby is born, DNA testing will tell who the father of the baby is, if she decides to have it. It's a long wait but in the end it will tell you what direction your life takes. Hope you are not a teenage. Good Luck dude.

Answer 8

Call the Maury show they’ll be able to do a free DNA test for you and you’ll get a free trip to New York City. It probably have to be after the baby is born, though they can do paternity test prior to it, however there is a small risk to the unborn child.

Answer 9

Well, if she is pregnant, and has been cheating then I would leave her, and then after the baby is born, if you turn out to be the father, file for full custody of the baby, and raise it yourself, because she does not deserve you or the baby... I really have no pity for cheaters especially when babies are involved.. Good Luck

Answer 10

I think it is best to wait until the child is born and request for a DNA test to confirm if the child is yours before making your next move. What you need to do now is that you need to think over these two question: 1) What if the child is yours, what will you do;
2) What if the child is not yours, what will you do.