my bf of two years has a shady past that i found out a few months back about i found out from my cousin he as kicked out of there highschool and was arressted for having drugs on him with intent to sell. he has been having a hard time getting a part time job and i am worried he might be going back to his illegal bad habits. We live in two completley different areas so its hard for me to hear anything bad or good about him. I am worried also cause we went to the mall and he went to pay someone back money and instead of doing it by check he had a brown bag full of cash. he normally hates to use his cell phone unless its an emergency now uses it none stop getting calls at 3:00 in morning last night and leaving coming back 2 hours later.
2006-09-04 09:13:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
should i ask him or am i being pariniod? i now i cant keep asking him to sleep over just so i now were he is at night?
2006-09-04 09:14:17 · update #1
when i asked whats up he said just guy stuff
2006-09-04 09:14:52 · update #2
sounds like your dude is cheating. if hes gone at night and you ask him, "What's going on?" and he says, "Guy stuff." then thats a serious problem. guy stuff could refer to you-know-what. its best you confront him now before its too late. just ask him again, "Why aren't u home at night?" and if he says, "Guy stuff." again then u keep pounding on his brain and soul that he'll have to give u an answer soon enough. guys cant hold a secret very long about girls =)
2006-09-04 09:19:08 · answer #1 · answered by tewsimple 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Whatever is happening isn't good. Remember, if he is dealing drugs or doing something illegal YOU will most likely go down with him...If cops raid your place or stop him while you're in the car and they find stuff then YOU are an accomplice. Get away from him...quick.
2006-09-04 16:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by applebetty34 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st of all 2 yrs together that is about 730 plus days of your life you spent with him. Tell him to keep it real. Being with someone for 2 yrs and they are still hiding somethang from you, then its not going anywhere. He is probably not taking this realtionhsip seriuos at all! Just ask him and see what he has to say gurl!
2006-09-04 17:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by Laney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the guy. It sounds like he is dealing. If he gets caught, (more than likely) it could possibly implicate you!
2006-09-04 16:21:07 · answer #4 · answered by expatmt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask him. You just have to go about asking him the right way so that he doesnt get offened and feel that you dont trust him.
2006-09-04 16:19:13 · answer #5 · answered by Tae 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like he is dealing to me. Get away fast.
2006-09-04 16:19:14 · answer #6 · answered by Blue Eyed Baby 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What is there to suspect? I think it is pretty clear! It's all out there as plain as day!
2006-09-04 16:31:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to break to you but this is not good. He's doing dirt and what ever you do stay away from him for your own safety.(life experience). Please take this advice to heart STAY AWAY! Be safe.
2006-09-04 16:19:38 · answer #8 · answered by friend 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋