my ex-friend (i'll call her S) was talking about my best friend (i'll call her A) to me and it hurt my feelings so i told S that i didn't want to be friends anymore and then A started hanging out w. 2 other people and left me by myself - so now i want to be friends with S again and i don't no how to tell her ... please give me advice as how to tell S i want to be friends again and A why i made the choice i made cuz she knows what S said. PLEASE HELP! serious answers only please ...
2006-09-04 09:12:24 · 7 answers · asked by A0I5 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to figure out what kinda of friends do you really want! If "S" said that about "A" then just think of what she could be saying about you behind your back. Real friends don't talk behind one anothers back. It sounds Like "a" has chosen different friends. This happens because our likes and dislikes change frequently sometimes. The only thing constant in life these days is change. Best friends are hard to come by and maybe you are just trying a little too hard. Relax and enjoy life, true friends will come when you least expect it. Best of luck.
2006-09-04 09:19:38 · answer #1 · answered by Robert V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call her up, tell her you made a big mistake and that maybe you could slowly build back your friendship. Tell her your sorry and that you miss her. And then make sure you never dump a friend for someone else again. If you come to a point where you have other friends in your life, manage your time wisely or get together with them at the same time.
2006-09-04 16:16:22 · answer #2 · answered by free2praise76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell S that you don't appreciate her talking about people like that (but S wasn't the one that left you for other friends now was she) anyway just tell her you forgive her and ask her to forgive you. A true friend will forgive you and in a few years will laugh about it with you.
2006-09-04 16:21:01 · answer #3 · answered by freak-show 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't pick your friends like that and i wouldn't be surprised if S didn't wanna be your friend anymore because i know i wouldn't!! i'm not trying to be mean but you really did pull a stupid move. make new friends and try to get yourself out of this situation.
2006-09-04 16:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by jgmice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
way are you apset to much? friends donot give up on friends like that did you ever ask yourself is she your really friend, can she moved just like that and start another frednship forgetting about you i dont think she is a friend at all.
2006-09-04 16:20:58 · answer #5 · answered by melitinam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont think about what to say..just say what u feel and what you want to happen..and i am sure that your friends will understand you..cheer up ;)
2006-09-04 16:17:41 · answer #6 · answered by Hayati 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to apologize and then explain if she's your frien she'll understand.
2006-09-04 16:16:58 · answer #7 · answered by Pinada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋