I mean i have average muscle and average weight im normal and dress nice but i can't find a girl friend for nothin it is very depressing please help!!!!!!!!
2006-09-04 08:31:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
I doubt your lack of girlfriend is much to do with your looks. OK, so looking like Brad Pitt isn't going to harm your chances (far from it!!) but what you really need is to get out there, be friendly. Miss Gorgeous isn't going to turn up on your doorstep. I'm sure you know that already, but where are you going to meet women? Trendy bars and clubs are full of single women. Or maybe there's someone you've overlooked. Maybe at work there's a cute-but-shy girl just waiting for you to talk to her.
Make sure though - and I'm speaking for all females everywhere - don't ask desperate or needy. I don't mean you should put on a big macho front, but don't appear as if you'd accept any offer, or that your desperate for just anybody to be your girlfriend (whether you would or not!)
Be sociable, be fun and try to stay in a positive mood. You don't want to moan or be negative, or when the conversation ends she'll get the feeling that your moody, and probably feel a bit down herself.
Have you ever tried speed dating? It's not weird or embarrassing, you get lots of people going these days. The people who go aren't the freaks you find in the Lonely Hearts collumn, just people who aren't sure where to go to meet potential dates.
Go out of your way to meet women, but don't stress it - the right girl usually comes when you least expect it. There's someone round the corner, I just know it!
2006-09-04 08:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your sadness, but life is fine without a mate. If you are happy with yourself and stop looking so hard, God will send one to you when you least expect it to happen. The depression comes from not being fulfilled in your own life. If you take this time to really learn about your self, and understand what it is you are really looking for, you will be surprised when she comes along. When you appear desperate, women will stay away. So just go out and have fun and enjoy life, because when you do find the right one, you will hopefully be married a very long time.
Have fun with your life, and enjoy...
God Bless
2006-09-04 15:55:26 · answer #2 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start off with having friends that are girls and it all will fall into place after that. And what makes you think you wont be depressed once you have a girlfriend. Once you have a girlfriend then you have to worry about not getting you heart broke in two. and then having enough money to take her places and so on and so on. DOnt stress it will happen when its supposed to. But the best place to start is first with alot of friends that are girls since girls will see you with alot of girls and start to take notice and wonder about you and then will start coming around you and you wont even have to look for them. They will be coming to your door.
2006-09-04 15:40:30 · answer #3 · answered by hersheynrey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait until you find the perfect person. And don't be depressed thats not gonna help you find one
2006-09-04 15:33:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha same here dude, the girls u want never seem to find any interest in u, ah well, one important thing is how well of a conversationalist you are, girls love to talk and hear things...
2006-09-04 15:35:11 · answer #5 · answered by speedy266 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry things happen for a reason. i didn't have one for a longtime then i had one right after another. so it will be your turn just hold on tight
2006-09-04 15:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by bryan b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait give it time sounds like you are getting someone real special in your life and she will come along soon
2006-09-04 15:34:56 · answer #7 · answered by worldstiti 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch some porn and masturbate. You'll forget about them chicks once you get your fix. Guaranteed!
2006-09-04 15:38:05 · answer #8 · answered by Justin G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try the yahoo singles dating site.
2006-09-04 15:34:39 · answer #9 · answered by really???? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try so hard. A bath helps also.
2006-09-04 15:33:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋