A guy in my class has a HUGE crush on me and has asked me out several times. I have many reasons not to, but this reason is on the top of the list. One time a person asked me out and I was pondering if I should or not. When I looked over toward the guy who asked me he was sitting with the guy who has a crush on me. I saw (the one who likes me) push him out of the way( not hard) and he turned around and didnt talk to him. I was mad. And the story doesnt end there folks the thing that REALLY ticks me off is when I danced with another guy.(which ment completly nothing) And he went into the bath room and started crying. He did that twice. How can I get him to realise that he needs to stop the baby act and start acting his own age. He is spoiled and it drives me nuts. He won't take no for an answer (exspecully if he wants to dance,) I tried talking to him about it but he justs looks away and says "I know" . Its hard to ignore it so please, any ideas?
2006-09-04 08:28:16 · 15 answers · asked by Lonewolf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
How old are you? You sound young, too young!
2006-09-04 08:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This boy really loves you alot. You are the only person he wants. When he finish High School(assuming you are in H. S.), and goes to college, he will meet other girls and one day forget all about you. But for the meantime, as long as he sees you, he will have this crush. The only thing that can cure this problem is time. Every boy has delt with this at some point in his life.
2006-09-04 15:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well cut off all contact and he can take no for an answer you just have to stand your ground. and yelling no i will not dance with you should mak everyone look at him and cause some social anxiety. plus tell your parents about this. they can help you do two things not be alone with him and refuse him at the door to your home and such. and they can talk to his parents which may give you a little more support on the dont talk to me and such.
2006-09-04 15:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O man that is not cool. I guess that you are just going to have to be mean to him. Make him not like you. It sounds like this guys has some problems. Whatever you do, don't encourage this crush. He needs to get over this thing!
2006-09-04 15:32:25 · answer #4 · answered by day dreamin baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have explained to him how you feel it is in his court now. You can't worry about something that is not your problem now. Don't pay attention to what he is doing because he wants you to feel sorry for him. Continue on and he will realize that you are not interested.
2006-09-04 15:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by Nick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell this same exact story to either your parents, the principal, or the police.
2006-09-04 15:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by nighthawk_revelations 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with your Ken doll, he's easier to control.
2006-09-04 15:33:26 · answer #7 · answered by Repub-lick'n 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him, but don't be mean. Or just simple tell him that you are not interested.
2006-09-04 15:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that he needs to be more mature and put him in his place you have let this go on too far and for too long and you need to put a stop to it NOW!
2006-09-04 15:32:23 · answer #9 · answered by lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him again and explain to him how his behavior makes you feel.
2006-09-04 15:30:35 · answer #10 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋