im a sophmore in h.s and theres this freshman girl that always wants me to walk around the whole school w/her in the mornings(i have 4 like the past 3 wks)and in the afternoon she always waits for me so that we can get on the same bus(which i dont like bc i want 2 listen to my ipod and shes always staring @ me) and i dont like that she acts like i went to tht school last year(which i didnt) in a way im kind of like a freshman myself and its not like she doesnt have any friends im pretty sure shes made more friends than i have.and i really dont like being w/her bc she doesnt tlk much and neither do i(thats why i rather b left alone) so its always akwardly quiet when im w/her.but i know shes capable of tlking bc whenever i c her w/her other friends shes always loud just like i am around my real friends. i need to ditch her quick but i dont know how?i dont want 2 b mean
2006-09-04 08:18:21 · 3 answers · asked by Simply Me 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be honest with her and tell her you like her for a friend, but you dont want to spend every waking moment with her!
2006-09-04 08:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not be her friend and let her look up to you? Let her know that you do need some time alone and to hang out with other friends. Or offer to have her come hang out with the gang. Offer to hang out a little each week, but set a boundarie. Offer to help with homework if she gets stuck. Maybe she doesn't have this type of attention at home and just needs a good friend. You can be friend and still have your own separete friends. Besides there may be a day that shes the last one standing by you. You never know.
2006-09-04 08:23:54 · answer #2 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um shes gay or she didnt have many friends before so you can just talk to her never shut up never she will get sick of you
2006-09-04 08:33:37 · answer #3 · answered by D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋