2006-09-04 07:53:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Politics
How can HE keep YOU without spying on YOU not knowing what YOU are doing behind HIS back?
If you expect him to trust you, you should be willing to trust him.
If he's given you reasons to distrust him, maybe you shouldn't keep him.
If the two of you are struggling to rebuild trust after trust has been violated, that is more difficult. Contact me if you want to chat.
(Why is this question in "politics?")
2006-09-04 08:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by Smart Kat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, your relationship does not sound solid if you cannottrust your boyfriend. What is happening between the 2 of you? Do you 2 love each other? Do you 2 respect each other? Do you 2 confide in each other? Do you 2 talk to each other? Do you 2 know each other well? Do you 2 feel comfortable together? Are you 2 sincere in your relationship?
If you answer 'No' to any one of the questions, then I suggest you take a step back and ask what do you really want from this relationship. Are you willing to go all the way to marriage? If not, then best not to make long term plan with him.
it will be a sad affair if there is no trust between the 2 of you.
Find some else whom both can trust each other.
2006-09-04 08:01:06 · answer #2 · answered by peanutz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't need to spy on him. If you don't trust him, you shouldn't be with him. Most often if someone suspects their mate of cheating, their mate is in fact cheating. (NOTE: I did not say always.) If he doesn't make you feel like the only one, like you are special to him, like he's treating you right - then he isn't.
You are a beautiful and unique person and there is a guy who's perfect for you out there somewhere. Don't settle for an OK relationship when you can have one that rocks you in every way.
2006-09-04 08:05:05 · answer #3 · answered by michaelsmaniacal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what I would do, but I have had a lot a bf's. You could try talking to his friends and see if they know anything he's not telling you. You might just want to try forgetting about it for a while bcuz if you haven't spied on him, then you really don't know if he IS doing something behind your back. So, just do whatever you can, and if you really want him to stay your bf then DON'T spy on him!!
2006-09-04 08:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by Bekah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're worried about what he's doing behind your back, you don't have much of a relationship to begin with. The best thing you can do is move on and find someone you can trust!
2006-09-04 07:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by clarity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have trust and faith or you will not make it past 10 years. When a person will not put trust and faith in another who never did anything wrong thrn they will do something just so they can at least feel like they desrve the cruel treatment of mistrust
Happy Labor Day
2006-09-04 09:48:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust.
2006-09-04 09:18:48 · answer #7 · answered by Steve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just don't spy on him, trust is VERY important in all true relationships! :)
2006-09-04 07:56:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for hints. If someone calls ask him "so who was that" or when he comes over/home "so what did you do today" If his answers are repeditive and/or hard for him to answer, chances are he's hiding something. Otherwise you just have to trust him.
2006-09-04 07:57:15 · answer #9 · answered by sondra j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears that you do not trust him from what you are saying. Be assertive. Tactfully tell him what is on your mind, be open and honest.
Trust is the key.
2006-09-04 07:59:10 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Versatile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋