Im in love with a man who is married, but me and him go way back. Plus he calls me all the time, tells me he loves and cares about me and he also gives me a lot of his time.
2006-09-04 07:46:33 · 31 answers · asked by Sophisticated_Lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is not wrong for one and only one reason....you cant help your feelings! Do what makes you happy but atleast tell him hes going to have to make a decision because he cant be with two women at once. Tell him you'll be there if he choses you but you cant keep things the way they are while he is still in a marriage. Now, if you knew the wife and were friends and whatnot I'd try to cut off all ties with the man becausethat wouldnt be right but like I said, you cant help your feelings but if its a situation like that then at least try to do something about it. Good luck :)
2006-09-04 08:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong to love someone, you can't really help who you love.
Where wrong enters the picture is in how we react to this situation. If he is calling you saying he loves you then he needs to make a choice. I'd back away, if his marriage is bad then he should end it.
If he wants it both ways, then you should wish him well and run the other way.
This is a pretty old story, and you know how it ends. It's like watching a movie you've seen a million times and waiting for a different ending. Trust me, the Titanic sinks every time.
Be strong, be honest and back off. His true heart will be revealed eventually whether you like it or not.
Good luck to you!
2006-09-04 07:51:11 · answer #2 · answered by Lori 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Bet Non Of All Those Answer Gives you what you are Looking For
Because Who his hand in the water has diff rent Feeling of who His hand on The Fire
i mean No One can Feel You But You
God Give you Brain to Use
Eyes to see
and Heart To Use
Don't Let No Body Tell you what you should and what you shouldn't
2006-09-04 08:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by Momomada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the classic tale of wanting something you cant have. I think everybody goes through it. But yes it is wrong. He is married and do u really want to be known as the homewrecker? He is also acting wrong too. Both of you should stop and think about how his wife would feel about all of this. Its true that we cant help who we love, but we dont have to act upon how we feel. Good luck!
2006-09-04 07:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by andrea lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is wrong. But what is wrong with him. He's the one who is married and he should not be calling you or telling you he loves you.
The best thing you could do for yourself and him is break it off immediately. Tell him you would be interested in re-establishing a relationship with him if and when he is not married.
2006-09-04 07:49:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong to have a relationship with a married man when you're not married to him. You can be friends, and you can love each other on a friendly level. Don't take it to a romantic level, though.
2006-09-04 07:49:05 · answer #6 · answered by n545ck 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, it is not a right realtionship. this kind of relationship dose not seem to have a bright future and happy ending. when he calls you, you should tell him it is wrong. and he is married, it is not the way to show how much he cares you if he wants to love as another woman's husband. it is not fair to you and his wife.thus, cut down this relationship as early as you can. it is better for you. if it is too later, you will be pain and hurt.
2006-09-04 07:56:31 · answer #7 · answered by flora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were married to a man who kept calling an old flame to tell her how much he loved her, would you consider that wrong?
If you would, then what you're feeling is wrong.
If you would not, then this could be nothing.
2006-09-04 07:51:17 · answer #8 · answered by blunt_yet_sharp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your mature about it, you could carry this on for as long as it takes. But why would you want to waste a life of love and happiness when he belongs to someone else.? Keep him for your own booty-call. Every man loves to be one. Keep your heart open to new ideas; love, real love, could snap upon you at any given time.
2006-09-04 08:06:31 · answer #9 · answered by Zephyr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu should never ever ever ever be with someone else who is taken.Would you honestly want to be with someone who would cheat on his wife?????Because if hes gonna cheat on her then he'll cheat on you too.And so what if he says he loves you. tell him to kiss your a@#.He's already picked his bride and married her. Go out and find someone who really loves you by showing you he can be faithfull.Dont make a mistake..put yourself in his wife's place.How would you feel if your husband were saying these kind of things to someone else?
2006-09-04 07:51:36 · answer #10 · answered by SusieQ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋