Cause i like this guy and now my friend likes him so what can i do to win him over?
2006-09-04 07:37:43 · 19 answers · asked by Reba B 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Depends on the guy.
Some guys only care about the looks rather than whats inside. Just be yourself and don't change just for him! If he's worth it, he'll like you for you.
"How could you be so segregated? Choosing the beauty queens over those of us who have so much more to offer on the inside..."
That quote was by me and it's to all of the boys in our world who only look at outer beauty.
One of my good friends said this:
Girls are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. The boys dont want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they get the rotten apples from the ground that arent as good, but easy. So the apples up top think something wrong with them when in reality they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right boy to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree.
My advice:
If the guy doesn't like you, he isn't worth it. You are probably an amazing person and he may be too shallow to see how great you are.
Hope I helped!
*~Bri~*
PS: If you need further help, don't hesitate to email me or talk to me on YIM.
2006-09-04 07:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It totally depends on how old the guy is. When I was 19, I wanted a pretty face and a nice butt. I also didn't care at all about their personality. I dated some of the most shallow, stuck-up girls out there.
As guys get older, looks are still important, but intelligence, drive, ambition, kindness, and personality make up much more of the package.
Let's put it this way, once a guy gets in his late 20s, he wouldn't really be interested in doing anything but sex with a dumb girl who is hot but has no future. He wouldn't want to make future plans with her and would use her just for fun.
A keeper for a guy is a girl who has everything I mentioned above.
2006-09-04 07:49:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's a guy who likes cute lookin' girls then I got the right advice for U. Now first of all, your looks come in first. (it lets boys notice u) Pick a nice looking outfit that either matches or very fashionable.If you where a skirt then you are half way there. But if you where pants just make sure it has cool designs and is full of fashion. Now when you pick a shirt, just make it look good on you and just be lookin' good! Now about that face, put on some lip gloss, but not tooo much,and maybe a little bit og eye shadow. Then put on some nice shoes and walk tha walk.
2006-09-04 07:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by lil' g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question can be answered in an entire book!
Even the nicest, sweetest and most sincere guys like a lady with a nice body. And you can't blame them because girls like guys with a nice bodies too. Other guys will say things like they want a girl with a great personality, good morals, kind or a good sense of humor. In order to really answer this question, people should be honest. Someone might want to marry me and say they love that I was super organized. But later on in the relationship they'd hate me for being a clean freak and wanting to schedule everything. I GUESS YOU CAN'T HAVE YOUR CAKE AND EAT IT TOO!
2006-09-04 08:36:20 · answer #4 · answered by Sam M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I shouldn't answer this 'cause I'm a girl but ......I can't help myself.
I say be yourself....a guy likes a girl who is natural.
Don't overpluck your eyebrows, overpaint your face like a clown and tan 'till you're burnt.
Don't act giddy- goofy 'cause you think it's cute, and don't fight and struggle with your friend like you're desperate.Just be cool and give him a smile here and there. He'll get the point.
Oh.....and don't listen to Daniel G--answerer number 2.
unless you want a pimp.
2006-09-04 07:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by ZEE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fist thing any guy would do is check out da girls body, me personally i'm a sucker forr light-eyed girls. But talk to the guy, let him get to know you, cuz physical attaction olny last 4 a short while, spiritual attraction is what keeps couples together!
2006-09-04 07:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by srsuper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be urself, u shouldnt have to try something new, or change ur personality, or change the way u look, cuz if u do, that guy is only gonna love u for the fake u, the person u changed into, and in the end u might end up getting hurt. trust me , just be urself. its best for someone to love u for who u are and not for who they want u to be.
2006-09-04 08:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like to play games. If he knows you like him as well as your Friend, Good Luck!! He'll think he's a player. All guys are different and like different stuff. If this one is worth you liking him he will like you for you and you won't have to do any ting to impress him.
2006-09-04 08:01:13 · answer #8 · answered by tree kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds crazy..but guys love girls with self-confidence and a girl that dont act desperate. when you show a guy that your so into him and do everything for him..he looks at that as desperation..and it makes you look stupid..just act confident and show him you like him but play a little hard to get. make him work if he really likes you.
2006-09-04 07:51:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. If he likes you for who you are all the time, he's a keeper. Otherwise you don't need to change to get a guy. It will backfire later and you will get sick of acting.
2006-09-04 07:52:58 · answer #10 · answered by luck7l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋