2006-09-04 07:37:00 · 16 answers · asked by luck c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
"You always hurt, the one you love,
the one you wouldn't hurt at all.
You always take the tenderest rose,
and crush it 'til the petals fall.
You always hurt the one you love,
with a hasty word you can't recall.
So if I broke your heart last night,
its because I love you most of all!"
Lyrics sung by the Mills Brothers about fifty years ago. It was bunk then and it is bunk now. If someone hurts you, talk it out. If they value you they will make changes in the relationship, or you will get a better understanding of their real intentions. If not, you can choose to accept it. If you do, go out and buy this CD. It will help you believe this behavior is all right. BTW: I love the Mills Brothers!
2006-09-04 07:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anyone you really care for can always hurt you worse.The thing is if it happens often you are probably wasting your time. Im sure you deserve better. love is not tears.it is cant wait to see him,hear hie voice etc. but tears--???I dont think so. maybe its time for you to move on,and meet new people. If you really care for a person,you do not intentially hurt them. You bend over backwards to not. Think about it. Wouldnt you rather laugh and share happy times in trade for those tears?
2006-09-04 14:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by GEORGIA10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to understand the way he love you first not just only you love him, if you two are in love he will never hurt you, he should know love is hurt if you are not inlove just for play, I stay away from that person , find the real person to love with.
Good luck
2006-09-04 14:41:36 · answer #3 · answered by BV 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 14 nearly 15 and have never dated a boy, there's just something about me i guess. when i fall inlove, i do it often but for a long time and usually with the same people, i have no confidence in myself. i hate it when i'm mates with a guy and then i end up liking them becaus ei can't act the same. i don't have much self-esteem but maybe in a way this could be good because i see guys differently to my mates (who can be quite crual).
2006-09-04 14:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that we are blind to the faults of those we love the most. Our love isn't appreciated and it's taken for granted on the other partner's part.
If they are a decietful person and not faithful, they will eventually be the one to cause the most pain.
Without trust you have nothing. You think you'd see that coming but you are usually blindsided.
2006-09-04 14:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hurts you the most because you love him the most.
2006-09-04 14:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because only the person you are in love with can affect your emotions in such a way. If you are NOT emotionally involved - how, then, can they hurt you?
2006-09-04 15:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody I loved has died so I am hurt the most.
2006-09-04 14:38:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because if it were someone you hated their opinion wouldn't matter to you at all , when you love someone you value their opinion and seek approval from them. anything that person does will always affect you more dramatically than someone you didnt love.
2006-09-04 14:42:21 · answer #9 · answered by frosty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry!
Us men are pigs.
I appologize for us...we sometimes do stupid things!
Keep in mind the perfect man will appreciate you till the end of time!
hugg hugg
2006-09-04 14:40:18 · answer #10 · answered by Weatherman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋