my friend likes this guy && he says all this really nice stuff about her [[how amazing she is, how no one should treat her badly, etc]] but he likes someone else, how should she make herself noticed? she's been asking me for help but i have no clue, plus he lives farther away so he's not around too much but they talk every night via aim.
2006-09-04 07:07:49 · 4 answers · asked by me =] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
may i add. he actually is clueless i've know this kid for awhile, he's 13 && he definitely doesn't know what's going on, he's had 1 girlfriend in the past. he's not a player. trust me =]
2006-09-04 07:26:57 · update #1
guys are clueless!!! What I've learned in high school, and since I've been out, if you want the guy to know, you have to tell him straight up, with no hidden meaning or misunderstanding. Get your friend, or if you want to be involved, tell him that the two of them should be together, or whatnot.
honest and straight up
2006-09-04 07:15:02 · answer #1 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on, he's a player. If she needs to hear those kinds of things to make her feel good about herself he has her number. He's not someone to get involved with. I mean how many more girls is he stringing along like her? This guy just wants to have his cake and eat it too. Tell her to find someone local who can treat her right not just talk about it.
2006-09-04 14:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by Nora Explora 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs to have a discussion with this guy about her feelings ..
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-04 14:11:30 · answer #3 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most girls like a guy who is nice to them and makes them feel worthy but the truth is they dont really love the guy they love how they feel with him. theres a married guy in my college who makes me feel incredibly awesome about being me. thats b/c hes just nice and takes me for who i am. theres a difference between liking someone for them and then for how they make you feel, how they treat you. Not to mention if he likes someone else and is doing this, hes not that into her i dont think.
the guy isnt clueless, he's with someone else. And living that far away, he could be with someone else ALL THE TIME.
2006-09-04 14:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by california gurlie poo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋