as a bi wife in the same stands as your wife and my husband in yours there is no real way to make us understand! I think we just have to experience it and Have full knowledge and proof to understand! Words are just that but your action's is what we listen to!
2006-09-04 07:37:42
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answered by lori b 3
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Okay PEOPLE listen up I AM HIS WIFE.... Im not a hoe, I never asked for the threesome... My husband suggested that I do this despite the fact that I didnt really want to do it, but I agreed because I dont mind being with another woman and I want my husband to have this experience as well. My only wishes are for him not to **** her, Im not f*cking her, I am letting him do all the things that I am doing to this chic... If he doesnt want me to kiss her then I wont. I personally feel that kissing is something meant for just the two of us, its more on a personal level... Im not a hoe, I would never go behind my husbands back... in fact I never really wanted a threesome but I thought it might be fun for something the two of us could share as a couple... If he set down some rules for me I wouldnt mind. My husband doesnt understand about the kissing which is fine, as I have tried to explain to him about it being a thing I feel should only be between the two of us.
Everything else that we were going to do is fine. This girl is also a friend of ours which complicates things a little because they have a connection. and even thought they may have made a good couple but then decided to be friends. Which I had no problem with at all. But I am not a jealous or selfish person... I am not doing the threesome for myself Im doing it for my husband because he desires it. I never even mentioned this to him he mentioned wanting us to do it to me. My husband doesnt have a problem with not ******* her, and he could get just as much out of the threesome from not ******* her because there are many other possibilities... I never said she couldnt give him oral sex or him not give her the same... Please stop calling me a jealous and selfish person because you cant just tear someone down when you dont know the situation...
Thanks everyone, and no im not angry I just dont wish people to get the wrong impression of me... as far as being selfish and a hoe and jealous....
2006-09-04 19:24:24
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answered by hearts_bleed_dark 3
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I think she is taking advantage of you, not just sexually. This is not a movie, this is reality. She's your wife and committing adultery right under your nose. Threesomes my ***. This is a marriage your supposedly talking about not a drunken sex business. Was there an extra bride at your wedding day?
2006-09-07 22:52:42
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answered by warhead 3
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You are really believing your own crap aren''t you?! No relationship can ever last once you invite that sht into your bedroom. I've known MANY people who have tried, thought they had it going on, and POOF! Divorce and anguish. Furthermore , Have you no balls? Why should she make all the rules? She gets to suck and kiss and Fu** some other person all she wants but you have rules? Sounds like you're only gonna be around til she finds something better. Threesomes and orgies and crap like that are for single( not married , not seriuos ) horny people. It sounds like fun, and even seems like fun at the time but, Nothing good can ever come of it. You are married to a woman who cheats on you, Period. Like I always say: You can't turn a hoe into a housewife.
2006-09-04 14:17:00
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answered by RhinoBoy 2
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Let me talk to her. i think you sound like a real good dude. but she does sound a lil insecure.it sounds great that u to can compromise about something like that and you being man enough to let her dictate what goes on. Let her know that you are here for her and here to respect her wishes. Also tell her that she needs to be lucky that she has someone like u who is open enough to let her do what she wants to do. But i think she should at least let you get at the other girl, as long as she is there too i dont see the problem.
2006-09-04 14:14:20
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answered by tyramarie26 2
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Since the fidelity boundaries within your marriage are horribly blurred with the "bisexuality" of your wife and your willingness to participate in threesomes, this problem will be ongoing. Marriage is meant to be between 2 and when you bring others into the marital bedroom...problems are inevitable. Sorry!
2006-09-04 14:11:43
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answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5
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Do you not consider this cheating? If she is bi that means that she has feelings for both men and women and her sleeping with anyone (whether it be a man or woman) besides you is cheating.
I'm sorry, but I think that situation is very messed up.
2006-09-04 15:07:44
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answered by Led*Zep*Babe 5
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What's the problem? She WANTS to bring home other women - so enjoy it! As long as you're there, it's not cheating. To be fair, she should allow you to do anything with the other girl that she herself does (which rules out f**king). Stop complaining and start bragging.
2006-09-04 14:12:32
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answered by heynow 3
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Your question! How do i make her understand i am alright with it all and that i am not going to do anything she don't want me to do. I hope that you believe me when i tell you this but you can't make her understand because it is coming within herself. What i mean is you already know that your wife is insecure. What you have to help her with should be is ....How she can learn to love herself and be happy with herself then she will be able to understand and believe what you tell her.
Hope that i helped ya?
2006-09-04 14:32:18
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answered by KittyKAt 1
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Sounds like your marriage is a little to open and that maybe you should close it. Anytime a third party is involved, it will more then likely bring problems.
2006-09-04 17:24:36
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answered by cyncase007 2
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