Hi!! Im going to get to the point. I have a boyfriend that i love to death but he dont pay much attention to me. He still messes around with his ex. He dont call me and if i want to talk to him i have to call him. So yesterday we didnt talk at all. Well a few weeks ago i meet another guy named nick at school and he calls more then my boyfriend. Nick wants to go out with me but i dont want to break up with my boyfriend. Now this is where i need ur help. Should i break up with my boyfriend or not.
2006-09-04 06:57:10 · 15 answers · asked by krissy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First off you do wanna break up wit ur boyfriend cause you meet nick and gave him ur number, if u wanted to keep ur bf then you wouldn't have done that. Women do that to weigh out our options. it's like.. i have a dude now but.. he's this and that which is not always good so I'm going to see what else is out there. Also your bf is also giving you a reason to talk to other people cause he keep dealing with his ex. I say carry him like he's carrying you, just stop calling him and hang out wit nick. If you still like you bf then play games wit him.. if he wants ho hang out say yea then change ur mind.. give him time only on ur time. These dudes out here think us females are going to go for anything and we need to start treating them the way they treat us.
2006-09-04 07:07:00 · answer #1 · answered by tyramarie26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEFINITELY this guy isnt your boyfriend if he messes around with his ex... wait a few weeks after that and then go out with this nick guy. because if yo jump from guy to guy people around your school will start to talk about you and call you a W H O R E or a S L U T
avoid bad gossip and do the right thing. remember, you dont need your boyfriend because he doesnt care about you at all. if he did he wouldnt be doing the wrong thing. so , make the right decision for everybody. for you, nick, your boyfriend,your boyfriend's ex, and the people in your school who will probably talk about you
because remember... gossip is BAD and it can get people killed... trust me I know
2006-09-04 14:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by candypoppa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would list the pros and cons of breaking up with your boyfriend and then decide. ALSO- if you have told him that he needs to pay more attention to you, stop messing with his ex and be more loving towards you and he has not done this, then you really have to re-evaluate what you love about him. He does not sound like he appreciates you nor deserves your love. I would hate to see you waste your time, when you could be happier and make someone else happy, too- who may appreciate and deserve you more.
2006-09-04 14:02:44 · answer #3 · answered by asylum07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He never was much of a boyfriend to begin to begin with. This relationship has been over for quite some time. Let him "mess " with the ex and quit him messing you up. Go with the one who shows a real interest in you.
2006-09-04 16:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your "boyfriend" has already broke up with you. Give Nick a chance. He is already better than what you are settling for from boyfriend. Your already allowing him to play you. Never start out a relationship bad. Your not married. Chaulk it up to a learning experience and move on.
2006-09-04 14:03:36 · answer #5 · answered by angel739902 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you need someone that'll treat you better, make the guys chase after you, you shouldn't chase after your boyfriend. Tell your bf that you need someone that cares about you and makes you feel special, how you feel like he's more interested in his ex than with you, and you've found someone else that wants to be with you. Call up Nick and tell him how you need to be with someone that shows that they care about you, like he has shown you lately, and ask him if he still wants to go out with you. Dump the bf, clearly there are better guys out there, and there is one right in front of you and on the plus side, he's interested in you.
2006-09-04 14:02:23 · answer #6 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriend doesn't sound like much of a boy friend. If he doesn't have time for you or doesn't think of you enough to call...???? You should hang out with people who like you and you like them because of mutual feelings. It's no fun being in a one-sided relationship! If that is what you have with your boyfriend, you haven't got much. Don't waste your time!
2006-09-04 14:06:30 · answer #7 · answered by maredith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should definitely break up with ur boyfriend and go out with nick!!!
2006-09-04 14:01:34 · answer #8 · answered by jasin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on! Bachelor #1 is a waste of your time, find out what Bachelor #2 is like.
2006-09-04 14:03:47 · answer #9 · answered by Nora Explora 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he still messes with his ex than why are you calling him your boyfriend? NEVER be second best to any man. ditch him and be with someone who values and enjoys time with you.
2006-09-04 14:00:57 · answer #10 · answered by bernie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋