Ok here's some background info. My friend and I have been friends since daycare. Well, what do you do if another of your friends tells you that she saw ur best friend come out of the house of ur 1st [and I mean my first ever(let's say I was a late bloomer)] boyfriend. Do you confront ur best friend and cuss her out until she runs off crying or do you sit down, ask her if it is true, then cuss her out till she runs off crying.
2006-09-04 06:20:22 · 6 answers · asked by Shakarra W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you and him are still together, yeah, sit her down and find out what's really up. If it's an ex boyfriend.....then yeah, it's still a little akward to have her being with him I'm sure, but it's not worth losing a close friend over. If it didn't work between you and him, it probably wont work between her and him as well.............do whatever makes the most people happy, no sense in destroying a friendship over something that wasn't meant to be anyway.
2006-09-04 06:25:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have been friends since u were little so who r u going to trust your best mate or your first u need to think who is more important to me and what would they do if it was the other way round sit down together and talk i am sure that u can do that i mean come on u have been friends for how many years
2006-09-04 13:31:07 · answer #2 · answered by spud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask her why she was there and see how good her explantion is then if its not a good one cuss her out but when you start to sit down and talk dont accuse her of anything just ask and be straight up.
2006-09-04 13:38:05 · answer #3 · answered by lost_in_love_still 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She hasn't earned enough respect to even ask if it is true? No you're right, go in there just screaming your head off. Who cares if you're right or wrong! Just be loud and make people cry. That always seems to work out for the best, Its how you would like to be treated!
' luck
2006-09-04 13:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he still your b/f? if not what is the problem he is fair game. and maybe it was'nt even sexual. I have alot of guy friends.
2006-09-04 13:28:28 · answer #5 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask first, of course. She's your friend; be her's.
2006-09-04 13:26:32 · answer #6 · answered by Not done with love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋