will i found out that my bf had cheated on me and gotten anothe girl pregnant and was so up set that i jus wanted to get bac at him so i went out wit my friends and just have fun. i mite this guy out to the club he's very very cute and we talked all nite i ended up goin back to his place were we had sex and like a week later i was out to luch wit my mom and i saw the guy and all of a sudden my mom was callin him over and inroducing him to me as my cousin. we had unprotected sex like 2 weeks after i have my period, now am jus freakin the hell out.
2006-09-04 06:17:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Firstly you need to find out if your pregnant. Buy a test from your local pharmacy. If positive dont panic. Many cousins have babies together and the babies are ok. There may be a slight increase of problems but you would need to talk it through with your doctor. Good luck.
2006-09-04 06:21:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If this took place 2 weeks after your period, i am still doubting that your pregnant. You need to calm down. What ever tjhe case may be pregnat or not you did not know that that was your cousin. The most you can do is move on from this point. Take a pregnancy test thats the only way you will know for sure and one you know your not pregnant you can begin to move on. If by chance you are pregnant, then honey, you have to decide what you want to do, weather you want to keep the baby or give it up for adoption. I dont see abortion as an option at all. No baby asks to be born it it us who bring them here and they should not be made to suffer. Even if you are pregnant for him and you do decide to keep your baby and raise it. All you have to remember is that your baby is going to be beautiful and part of you no matter who the father is. But before we get this far ahead take the pregnancy test and calm down. Decide what moves you want to make and begin to go about doing so.
2006-09-04 06:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by candylishus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm with Amosunknown,who previousely posted,...when are people going to realize that having sex means making a baby!!! DUH! I'm not trying to be mean to you!!!!!!!!! I just want you to think about this next time, ok. If you get thru this and not get pregnant, then PLEASE be more careful!!! The fact that he is a cuz, is not the most important problem,the most important thing to think about is now there maybe a baby on the way,and you have to find someone to talk to, someone you can trust!!!!!!!! You sound young so I know you are probably scared, just find an adult to help you find out what you need to do first ! Either way pregnant or not, you need to take some measures to make sure that you're not here again!!!!!! Good Luck, I truly mean that, get some help ok!!!!!!!!!!!!! Let us know the outcome!
2006-09-04 06:35:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's unlikely that you're pregnant. Even if you are, your doctor can explain to you the risks to the baby that are invovled if your first cousin is the father. In some countries, first cousins can marry, but not here in the US. I would calm down and wait to see if your period arrives. We all make mistakes and you had no way of knowing that you were related to your cute dude. If this is the worst mistake you ever make in your life, then you're a lucky girl. In the future though, protect yourself better by not having sex with strangers. I also hope you dumped your cheating boyfriend. You deserve better! Good luck!
2006-09-04 06:25:20 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Strain 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Did you miss your period? If you are really worried about being pregnant then I would take a HPT or go to Planned Parenthood to test. In my opinion, that was really immature of you and your one night stand guy to have sex without knowing each other. Especially because it was unprotected. There are many STD's you could catch and you could get pregnant. If you don't want a baby or an STD, USE PROTECTION!!!
2006-09-04 06:24:33 · answer #5 · answered by CeCe 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I just like to point out in situations like these that sex is for making babies. Thats its soul purpose. Not for making people feel good. The feeling is a perk, the baby is the result. If you dont want babies, dont make them. Its really a simple concept.
Theres always a chance that you are pregnant if you used protection poorly, or none at all.
Wait until you're due for your period and then go request blood work from your doctor.
2006-09-04 06:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
That's really gross !!! There was a woman that didn't know who her father was and ended up sleeping with this guy and having his baby - later finding out that the man was her biological father !!! That's tons worse !!! Okay, just stop going around and having sex with people and you will be fine. Hopefully that guy is your second cousin .
2006-09-04 06:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
WOW...I am finding it hard to think enough to write<<< Are ALL of the children out there in yahoo-land that brainwashed to ALL have the same thought??? You can marry if your cousins , and believe it or not you can have healthy babies too!!! Who started this whole "it's SOOOOO wrong!!!" attitude ??? ( probably the one that started the rumor that circumcising is cleaner...that's why they made it a law-) DUUUUUHHH! I say " Don't worry about it !!!" do your cuz' all ya want!!! Let the feeble minded sheep believe what they want- they gotta have something to focus their hate on---We wouldn't want them to have to look at themselves and fix what they got wrong with them????
2006-09-04 07:09:44 · answer #8 · answered by budlowsbro420 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your spelling is a clue to the type of person you are, I can see how this occurred. I say you move to West Virginia with your cousin and make lots of them blue babies.
2006-09-04 06:48:30 · answer #9 · answered by Justin G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find out if your pregnant and talk to your *cousin* he should want to know whats going on with you, It takes 2 to tango! Good Luck
2006-09-04 06:40:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋