2006-09-04 06:14:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What's on the inside is more important than what is on the outside. A good guy is hard to find and not every girl is the same. Some woman like a man with a little meat on them. You will never know this unless you try. Try to date women that are your same size. They usually don't have an issue with weight because they are in the same boat. Try to work on your confidence. You seem to have low self esteem. If you are uncomfortable with your weight, try to start exercising and watching what you eat to lose weight. If you are unable to lose weight by yourself, go to your doctor or join weight watchers to get help. Good luck to you!
2006-09-04 06:23:30 · answer #1 · answered by cee cee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You basically answered your question: If you are over weight then do something about it. I know, easier said that done, not really I have just been watching what I have been eating and eating smaller portions and drinking a lot of water and I lost 15 lbs in a little over a month and I am trying to lose more. You can do it if you put your mind to it. You don't need those crazy diets that are out there, stay away from fast food places and remember to push the plate away after your small first helping. Eat fruits, salads, veggies and things like that. Good luck and go get em.
2006-09-04 06:34:17 · answer #2 · answered by morris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, my lad - let us get serious.
Being a 'bit' fat is not unattractive to women. The problem is not with women. The problem with your self image.
Some of the most beautiful women I have ever laid eyes on have been married to guys who are fat, ugly, stupid - but they were men.
Men who weren't ashamed to BE men.
Son, I think you may be experiencing a false sense of having to tone down your maleness.
You are a boy who is becoming a man. Shyness because of your image of your body is a poor excuse for not speaking to girls.
Girls, just like women, like boys (men) who have confidence, charm and a sense of their own maleness.
I'm gonna tell you what to do.
Talk to girls. Forget that you a 'bit' fat and imagine that EVERY girl wants you. Just talk to girls and you will find that they are a lot more fun than scary.
Girls are great, man. Girls are fun and girls just want to have fun!
Don't think about yourself - think about pretty girls!
You'll be okay. You really will. Just get your mind off of how you think you look and put your mind on how pretty girls look!
2006-09-05 01:25:42 · answer #3 · answered by Temple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is someone for everyone . however when you become disillusioned { and you will , some people are cruel } don't turn
to food for comfort . It can become a real problem . In the mean time I suggest that you try to find a book or class on higher self esteem . Good luck sweetie !
2006-09-04 06:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit judging yourself and start talking to these females.Some ladies out there like a little meat on their mans bones.You are probably a very sweet and sensitive guy,as most big peole are.Just take a chance and stop worrying about your weight
2006-09-04 06:25:57 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Bug 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Diet and exercise to regain your self confidence.
2006-09-04 06:17:20 · answer #6 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either lose weight(duh!) or date fat women.
2006-09-04 06:20:09 · answer #7 · answered by axis mentis 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋