I'm from Russia if that helps and in my country at least in my town
in the south west of Russia women are taught to obey men to please them and listen to them,to be in the kitchen and to clean the house...I was raised up in that spirit yet I have a good education and as such I'm not sure if I should be like other girls for that matter...but one part of me still wants it.What should I do?
2006-09-04 06:10:25 · 6 answers · asked by Adonia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If I feel like the other girls does that mean that I'm weak?Or submissive?
Thank you
2006-09-04 06:46:08 · update #1
follow your heart and do what you feel comfortable with. The answer will come to you and it will feel right just for you. Don't make your decision based on what other people do. Make a decision based on what you want to do. Life is way to short, make the most out of what you've been given to work with.
2006-09-04 06:17:38 · answer #1 · answered by cee cee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what your heart tells you to do. In asking the question, you show you're uncomfortable with the ways of your upbringing. That means you don't necessarily believe you should be doing it. However, if you really loves a man, and knows he loves you, you'll find yourself doing all those things and more.
2006-09-04 13:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by bratpackfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with pleasing your spouse, but that goes both ways too. Just do what you feel, love your spouse and don't worry about what other woman are doing, just be yourself and you will feel better for it.
2006-09-04 13:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by morris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Education is supposed to liberate us (men & women) and to give us a choice. You have a choice, that is your education. Whatever choice you make, it is yours. Good luck.
2006-09-04 13:14:05 · answer #4 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come to the us honey. Women aren't treated that way here
2006-09-04 13:14:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart . However in either case be sure the guy trears you good!
2006-09-04 13:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋