Okay, I've had unprotected sex. But, he never came in me, & it only lasted maybe.. 1 to 3 minutes. I didn't want it to go any longer because I was afraid. We had incidents where he would just put it in, then out for maybe 10 to 20 seconds.. once again, never cumming. I've had my normal periods & I've taken 3 hpts. They were all negative as far as it seemed. I know I may not be pregnant, but I am getting these weird kind of shooting pains through my vaginal area. They aren't like, deadly pains where I can't walk, but I just don't know what they are. Could it be a pregnancy symptom? Or what else?
2006-09-04 06:03:47 · 15 answers · asked by kayla. 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Sounds like P.I.D. to me. Better get down to the clinic and get that std treated.
2006-09-04 06:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
it is possible to become pregnant even if the male doesnt orgasm inside you, so please dont risk this happening again as even befor orgasm a small amount of sperm can leak out.
however i dont think you have any worries in that area. with normal periods & 3 negative tests you wont be pregnant. the tests can be used 2 weeks after unprotected sex, so if youve had unprotected sex in the last 2 weeks, wait 2 weeks & re-test to reasure yourself.
you are obviously worried & in a way that is good - if only because it will mean you are more careful in the future. please be more careful from now onwards. the female body is made to become pregnant & unplanned pregnancy happen all too easily - even adults who are using contraception can make mistakes, but those mistakes are far more likely to happen to someone without much experience... if at all possible, talk to your parents or doctor about getting contraception - sure they may simply tell you not to have sex, but after thinking about it they would rather supply a 13 year old with contraception than risk pregnancy. however, you should also use condoms to protect against sexual disease as takign the pill or havign an injection etc wont protect you from that.
your pains are most probably nothing, or it could also be due to the fact that you have been using a new part of your body. im afraid women do get mysterious pains form time to time, but yours is most likely due to your worry over whats happened - i know it sounds strange, but that does happen. there is also the chance that because of you being nervous you werent as lubricated as you could have been so you could have made your self sore during sex.
as others have said you could have a sexual disease - only a doctor can confirm that. dont be afraid to ask questions or get help if you feel you need it. sure, 13 is young, but its better to be an educated responsible 13 year old than to simply be told to stop having sex, when you are going to do it anyway & take risks.
good luck
2006-09-04 07:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No pregnancy symptom Ive ever had or heard of. Sounds more like you may have an STD. You need to go to the Dr to be tested. In future use a condom, you can still get pregnant even if he pulls out. If you don't know this then you should not be having sex.
2006-09-04 06:06:25 · answer #3 · answered by koolkatt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should go see the Dr. I have heard implantation bleeding can be that painful or you having a miscarriage. When I first *could* be pregnant everyone warned me about shooting pains in the back and vagina area saying that's what happens most the time when you have a miscarriage, then you start what you think is your period. I think it would just be best if you went to the Dr. ASAP
2006-09-04 06:08:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go get checked. Though pains in your vaginal area wouldn't be occuring from pregnancy until you were huge. Trust me on this one. It sounds more like an infection or something. I'd get looked at if I were you.
2006-09-04 06:22:42 · answer #5 · answered by criticalcatalyst 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be pregnancy but it sounds more like a yeast infection or other std, I would see a doctor.
and for future reference it's called pre-cu'm and it can get you pregnant, men can cu'm in less than 3 minutes, especially when you have been teasing them. When my ex husband got out of jail he lasted maybe 30 seconds.
2006-09-04 06:11:01 · answer #6 · answered by brdbeyondBelief 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your probably not pregnant but you should really go to a clinic to get all tests done. It may be something else or it may be nothing.
2006-09-08 03:26:58 · answer #7 · answered by NIKKI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to go to the family planning clinic and get yourself straightened out.
2006-09-04 06:06:08 · answer #8 · answered by all_my_armour_falling_down 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It only takes one sperm to make a baby. even if you didn't do it long. one sperm is all it takes. so you could be pregnant. My mom had the same thing happen when she was pregnant.
2006-09-04 06:07:44 · answer #9 · answered by revalutionarygirl93 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best to go to your DR and get checked. You cannot be diagnosed on yahoo answers. Good Luck!
2006-09-04 06:06:00 · answer #10 · answered by yeppers 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋