I know this may seem like I am punking out by writing this to you instead of talking to you in person, but I can better express myself when I write. After my last conversation with you last night I feel that I have gained allot of in site into what kind of person you really are. I feel that you and I are on two completely different wave lengths and we are not alike at all. I'm sorry things are ending this way, but we both know its for the best. Lori, don't get me wrong, you are a nice person and that's the only reason I have stuck around and been friends with you for this long, but you have some serious issues. I understand it must be difficult feeling the way you do, but you are not willing to help yourself, and I cant sit back and watch it go on anymore. You are pulling your loved ones into you misery and self pity and I cant let that happen to me as well. You need to change. I am sorry things got out of hand with Tim. I did not mean for things to happen the way they did. I guess it
2006-09-04 06:03:30 · 11 answers · asked by Prissy_kitty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
is wrong for me to want to be Tims friend. I cant help the way I feel about him and he cant help the way he feels about me, but that doesnt make it right. Tim is a good man, and I feel he deserves to be treated better. You want him to change but you are not willing to change for him, and that is wrong. You are one sided. Just some advice. You need to start treating Tim better or someone like me will swoop in under you radar and take him from you. I dont mean to hurt you and if I did im sorry. At this point I dont even think you care. I hope you, Aden and Tim have have good life and I hope things get better for you, because you are a good person and you deserve more than you allow yourself to have. Take care of youself, Aden deserves a good mom. There is no need to contact me any further. I will miss you and I do love you and im sorry.
Should it or is it too harsh?
2006-09-04 06:06:26 · update #1
We have been friends since middle school. Im 25 now. Tim is her husband. I didnt do anything wrong but she was under the impression that I wanted to be with him. Not trying to sound concieted but if I were to leave my husband for him, I would be taking a huge step down. And besides, she always told me she trusted me wholeheartedly, and then after all these years, she questions my loalty. I also feel that I have out grown her, and that im moving foward and she is not trying to better her life. She is filthy, and she smells all the time and she treats her husband like dirt. I cant take it anymore.
2006-09-04 06:17:04 · update #2
I still think one on one conversation is the best.
She might misunderstand your letter.. at least you'd be there to explain yourself.
At this point in her life, at her lowest, you should be with her. She needs a friend to lean on who'd help her ease her burden and not another burden to carry...
Contemplate girl before giving this to her...
2006-09-04 06:11:36 · answer #1 · answered by gremLin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg. that is weird. Im in the same exact boat as you (Tim was her ex) are you talking abiout a girl with the first name that starts with M? Freaking crazy! Anyway, i thought about writing that too,but i though its really not worth it. Im just telling her i have plans when she asks me to go out. Shes such a sad girl. Wait, now i just read the second part. No, not my situation at all!
2006-09-04 06:07:36 · answer #2 · answered by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Counseling to your son in the previous he gets completely out of hand- a might desire to! A lawyer for you...you fairly have not got the alternative. A message device on the telephone...save all harassing messages from him and he will go away them.show all telephone calls. be certain the youngster has NO get admission to to the land telephone interior the domicile so he won't be able to play the manipulation game anymore. save those letters from the ex....they are clean decrease harrassment and he's not allowed to try this-the lawyer will handbook you interior the right criminal reaction to them.
2016-11-24 21:19:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems fine to me ...
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-04 06:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a little mean, but if that's how you feel, say it. You don't want her to contact you, be prepared for her to get upset and try to, she'll probably want to have the last word. My advice, when she sends something back in response, read it, or don't, its up to you, but don't reply because she'll just be wanting to get you more upset.
2006-09-04 06:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u totally dissconnect from ur best friedn u will regret it...i did it and i regret it...try if possible just to distance yourself for some time...then things may change...if not...well you could turn to eachother for troubled times... trust me fully cutting someoone off isnt the best idea..just distance urself so it is equal on both sides to avoid future conflict...are u sure u want this to happen...think about it carefully...dotn think about the present think about the future...
2006-09-04 06:13:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow ! What did she do? We can't give a straight answer without a little more info..and I'm not being nosey
2006-09-04 06:08:56 · answer #7 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow what a great mate she is your asking srangers advice on a letter i hope i never go to that extreme
2006-09-04 06:24:57 · answer #8 · answered by nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I can't read it all, but you NEED to talk to her in person... No offience but it's kind of wimping out... NO OFFIENCE!
2006-09-04 06:07:01 · answer #9 · answered by Katie Wady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that hurts
2006-09-04 06:06:24 · answer #10 · answered by Mandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋