Majority of cancers i know have a hard time saying whats bothering them and it drives me insane. They expect you to already know how they feel and what they are thinking. For example my poor cousins he is an aries and his gf is a cancer. And she is always angry with him but she never tells him why. Or my boyfriend he is a cancer and he can be angry with me but want tell me why but expects me to know why he is angry. It drives me insane i have no problem telling someone that i am(pisces) angry with them because they may not honestly know. I told my boyfriend this and he looks at me like i lost my mind.
2006-09-04 05:33:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
OK, I AM A CANCER AND IT IS OUR WAY TO HOLD OUR EMOTIONS IN. I AM SO GUILTY OF THIS. I THINK WITH ME TO ALLOW SOMEONE TO KNOW THEY HAVE GOTTEN UNDER MY SKIN WOULD BE A SIGN OF WEAKNESS AND WE ALL KNOW HOW TOUGH CANCER'S TRY TO BE ON THE SURFACE. (GUILTY, I AM)!! SO INSTEAD OF SAYING WHAT'S WRONG WE JUST GIVE THE COLD SHOULDER OR THE "I DON'T REALLY GIVE TWO POO'S" ATTITUDE. IT'S A REALLY HARD THING TO TRY AND CHANGE AS I'VE BEEN THIS WAY SINCE A KID AND IT'S REALLY SOMETIME'S THE ONLY WAY TO GET THROUGH TOUGH TIME'S.OTHER THAN THAT NEGATIVE TRAIT WE CANCER'S CAN BE REALLY LOVING AND UNDERSTANDING OF OUR MATES. MY SUGGESTION WOULD BE TO TRY AND SAY TO YOUR MATE "WHEN YOU'RE READY TO TELL ME WHAT'S WRONG I AM ALL EAR'S.
2006-09-04 11:34:18 · answer #1 · answered by bonne 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I take Astrology with a grain of salt, so I don't think you can lump all Cancers together. My ex-wife was one and I'm a Pisces like you. She fit your description to a "T"; but now I know another Cancer that I'm very interested in and so far she has had no problem letting things out- but if she sometimes holds things back then I am sure she is just a little embarrased by her shortcomings - but she never gets angry with me, though. We have a good line of communication - better than most. So it all depends on the two people. By the way Pisces tend to want to say too much anyway - I've learned that sometimes it's easier to be mysterious instead of telling all - and believe me I want to be an open book, too. Just a thought.
2006-09-04 15:53:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cancer's are very secretive and very private. Thus the shell of the cancerian crab.
I am a Pisces female as well, and have had several cancerian partners. I have learned to ignore their mood swings, if and when they want to tell me I'll listen, if they don't, I just let them be. Being a Pisces makes me very much in tune with what's going on anyway, so I just use my instincts. I often know what they are feeling and I at times, keep it to myself, or at other times, let them know exactly what I think of their trying to "hide". I do however, try to respect their privacy, secularly and metaphysically.
And cancer's as well as the other water signs, have more than their share of emotional anguish, understanding this and keeping a distance has helped. Peace.
2006-09-04 12:45:44 · answer #3 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some Cancer men born in the first 2 weeks of July think their mates should be mind readers. There are some secrets they won't even reveal. Even to there closest friends. I went coo coo with my Cancer boyfriend. Not with anymore. I thought i was going insane.
Take care.
2006-09-04 13:33:14 · answer #4 · answered by X-Woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a cancer and yes we are hard at expressing our feeling and No we do not expect you to know how we feel. By asking you might get to know the problem. You have to be real persistence because it takes a while for you to even get something out of us. We keep everything in.
2006-09-04 13:41:08 · answer #5 · answered by Ruby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are just unstable. I am a double Cancer and I tell people what I want. THEN they get upset with me. In other words , cancers can't win either way?
2006-09-04 14:10:39 · answer #6 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cancerians are very sensitive people and they can guess the feeling of others. They do not realize that others are not equally sensitive .This upsets them.
2006-09-05 03:52:17 · answer #7 · answered by Brahmanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is an aries & he thinks I can read his EFFIN mind sometimes. It tries me NUTs.
2006-09-04 12:37:29 · answer #8 · answered by waycrazyme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe these people take horoscopes too seriously and that is why they're unhappy.
2006-09-04 12:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
were crabs were naturally crabby...........
2006-09-04 12:41:59 · answer #10 · answered by darian72003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋