tell me why yall r so darn pertective if yew knew we were safe why would yew have a problem with your kids going to the mall,high school football games, and spending time with me boy friend??? my mom wont let me do anything and she wont tell me why can one of yall???
2006-09-04 05:16:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm guessing that she's worried and over-protective. She may not like or trust your boyfriend. She may be worried that you're moving toward (or already) sexually active and feels you're not ready.
Asking to have a mature conversation - no fighting or arguing her points - seems like a good idea. Make it clear that you won't argue - that you're just looking to understand.
2006-09-04 05:20:42 · answer #1 · answered by JJJJJJJJim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from a parents point of view we have all kinds of reasons. I am a parent of a 16 year old. She complains that she never gets to do anything. She does but she thinks she needs to go somewhere everyday. Your parents have seen and heard alot of things in their lives. They are scared that these things will happen to you. Child molesters, drugs, abducters, bombings just to name a few. We are just trying to keep you safe. We don't want you to be a mother/father before you get a chance to be a kid. My daughter goes to games and she spends time with her boyfriend. I trust her, but I don't trust some of the people she knows. When you grow up and have kids you will be the same way. Don't say you won't. I did....and I am.
2006-09-04 12:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by Donna 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is the deal! Your mom is concerned becuase she does not want you to screw up! Plan and simple! It could be that she trust you with the world but some of your homies can be as*****s and mom knows it. So it could be she wants to look out for you becuse she loves you and would feel like a bad parent if she screwed up because YOU screwed up.
Be cool with this it is a MOM thing, and some day you will do the same for your child!
2006-09-04 12:42:07 · answer #3 · answered by ferretcoach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I completely agree with your mom but this is something you will fully understand when you're over 21. Be patient! I hear you... I had the exact same feeling but now I understand. Give your mom a chance. Do what she wants for a bit and she'll stop harrassing you. Hope this helps.
2006-09-04 12:27:34 · answer #4 · answered by C h e e z C ஐ k e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats easy!!!Us as parents will protect our children anyway possible.I believe teenagers grow up to quick even tho im only 30 but a mum of 11 yr old and 5 yr old you dont have enough time to grow so please babe just take your time your mum just loves you and one day when you have your own kids you will have your answer...
2006-09-04 13:15:11 · answer #5 · answered by cowgirl angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever get in trouble, do something your not supposed too.If you say yes thats why there protective over you.Maybe your hanging with the wrong crowed.If not then tell them to trust you until you do something wrong.
2006-09-04 12:19:38 · answer #6 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom is exactly like that to it drives me crazy so i do things without her knowing its kinda bad but i cant live my life in my house.
2006-09-04 12:19:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can speak for your mother. Only she can answer this question for you. Each parent/child relationship is different. Talk to your mother.
2006-09-04 12:19:49 · answer #8 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if she lets you do something which gets you hurt or worse she would NEVER forgive herself. Your good health & welfare are dependent on her good decisions.
2006-09-04 12:23:30 · answer #9 · answered by curiousgeorge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is just thinking of all she used to do at your age and is afraid you will do the same.
2006-09-04 17:10:47 · answer #10 · answered by jms043 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋