your with a person for seven years that you have kids with things arent going your way so you meet a person online talk to them almost a year, think there right so you leave the person youve been with for seven years get married to the person you meet online and realize 28 days later that the marriage was a mistake so you leave and go back to the one you were with before. (my girlfriend did this to me now the guy she ran off and married is talking about abandonment charges.) does he have any ground to stand on.
2006-09-04 05:13:16 · 22 answers · asked by James B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yeah, it could end in divorce. Big deal. Buddy you got bigger problems than that if you took her back.
2006-09-04 05:15:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not really..No Fault divorce is usually the ground in all states...but a divorce is required now....The girl you are involved with is somewhat immature, but you already know that. You are a very forgiving person with great depth. Perhaps, and hopefully, she has learned many lessons here. Maybe yes, maybe no...time will tell. But a divorce is necessary...or an annulment, depends on the situation. IF he misrepresented himself, annulments can be given. Divorce can carry some alimony tags...for the man as well as the woman...be careful about what you do..you need advice from a lawyer NOW.
2006-09-04 05:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have children with her. So I wouldn't shove her out the door if she wants back in. I recomend you find out about having the marriage anulled (not sure of the spelling). Then if shes feels this man is chasing her to put a restraining order in place. I would seek family counseling in order to make sure your children and you don't wind up going through this emotional truma again as a family. I would end all online chats with people ( both you and her) and use the internet strictly for contact with family, and for educaitonal purposes, news, games.
Maybe before she just moves right back in you should live in your own places while you seek the counseling.
2006-09-04 05:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you didn't really state if you two were married or just together for seven years...but at this point, who cares? Let her deal with the hole she dug for herself. You need to worry about yourself and your kids (I take it she left you and the kids). Don't bring her back into your life...she obviously wasn't happy and is just coming back because she has no where to go for the time being (hadn't had a chance to meet someone new online while married to that other guy).
2006-09-04 10:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by Veryconfused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the first place she shouldn't;t had left. If things were not going how she wanted it it was not the reason to go and marry the guy you met on line. Both parties would've sat down and talked it out asking each other what can we do to work this out. She was a fool to leave you and do what she did. You are better off alone and finding someone who cares, respects and loves you for you and is ready to be involved with someone.
2006-09-04 05:46:20 · answer #5 · answered by LadySonia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the law where you live. I think under the circumstances he'd have a hard time getting a court to listen. Your girlfriend should file for an annullment under a claim of incompatibility. And do it right away, before her "husband" can charge her (or you) with anything.Then, you and she need to have some counseling, addressing the way relationship problems are addressed.
2006-09-04 05:15:57 · answer #6 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Abandonment charges only apply to abandoning children.
The guy is trying to manipulate and control.
Talk to an attorney, but don't worry about this claim.
2006-09-04 05:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by JJJJJJJJim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-06 09:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
their is no such thing as abandonment charges on adults. 28 days you can get a annulment of the marriage it's like you were never married.or file for divorce.
2006-09-04 05:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can get an annulment. But do you really want to take her back? She left on a whim, came back the same way. And she was talking to him for a year!
2006-09-04 05:45:27 · answer #10 · answered by Gothic Martha™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not the first to run away for a marriage and the last
since she was married for less than a month she probably can get an annulment
she needs to get herself a lawyer
2006-09-04 05:31:57 · answer #11 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋