OK i'm sooo shy when it comes to talking to girls. I'm bisexual and have a boyfriend so he usually introduces me. But seriously when I'm out and about I get so nervous to approach a cute girl. I guess I'm afraid that she is not going to be bi, react badly and reject me. How can I get over this?
2006-09-04 05:12:01 · 14 answers · asked by DayTripper 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Start talking about 'girly' things... like jewelry, lipstick, makeup, mirrors, shoes, handbags, hose, cologne, Britney Spears...
2006-09-10 11:35:04 · answer #1 · answered by guicoder 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should start by looking at what is the worst thing that can happen if they reject you? I guess, the sky is not going to fall. If you are convinced about it...then i think its gonna be a lot more easier to go and talk to them
2006-09-04 05:16:09 · answer #2 · answered by vani3624 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I think it might be best if you approach girls in a gay friendly environment such as a gay bar or gay oriented establishment or try meeting girls on-line. Secondly, if you get rejected don't get discouraged because not everyone is for everyone. Don't take it personally.
2006-09-08 07:32:39 · answer #3 · answered by metrogurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to really be a wallflower and always waited for people to talk to me. It just took me working up the courage to walk up to a girl and starting a conversation. It's easier to listen in and join in a conversation sometimes.
2006-09-04 11:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its not best to approach any girl you are attracted to. When you meet girls and you feel a connection - it will happen...or you can use sites where you can specifically look for girls who are interested in finding other girls like bicupid.com
2006-09-11 12:45:49 · answer #5 · answered by honeyinthelexus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls are ******* *******, so I understand why you get nervous when talking to a girl. Hopefully you'll meet one thats down to earth and sweet. Like me! But I'm not bi sorry. Just be cool... be cool and chillax dude.
2006-09-04 06:00:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with "hi, my name is _____" and see where it goes from there... if she doesn't seem attracted, ask her where she got her shoes from, or where the bathroom is, or if she too thinks the band playing sucks... if she catches on, introduce her to your boyfriend if you don't want to get caught
2006-09-06 14:18:53 · answer #7 · answered by Phedre D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn sign language. Deaf girls are WAY hotter anyways.
2006-09-10 11:37:07 · answer #8 · answered by Vancouver-snuggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,tell them that you are bisexual so maybe they will understand you.I know its hard but maybe its a way to get over with that problem.
2006-09-08 10:17:22 · answer #9 · answered by hopeless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be like that... it just takes some time. You have to take little steps until you feel comfortable enough to take long, smooth strides.
Wow, that metaphor sounds weird now.
2006-09-04 05:31:09 · answer #10 · answered by Kylie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋