My boyfriend of 2 years spends more time with his friends and playin online poker then he does me anymore. some say it's because he's too comfortable in the relationship. If this has happened to you what did you do and did it work for your bf to spend more time with you.. My bf and I basicly have 1 night that we sit down at watch movies and thats Fridays. other then that he mostly wants to be with his friends.
2006-09-04 04:57:39 · 14 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the only time I do spend with him is our movie night, and When we go to the bar so he can shoot pool on Wed, Thurs, and Sat nights. but he doesn't want to stay with me and he mostly talks to his friends at the bar
2006-09-04 05:03:34 · update #1
As its life this is how life of relationship gets after awhile
2006-09-04 05:07:10 · answer #1 · answered by abeautyourstruly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friends are right, he is too comfortable. You will have to put your foot down and let him know that you would appreciate more time spent with him. If he still can't grasp that after a good talking, then let him know you mean business, evenif that means leaving him for a little while. He will then realize what he had and do what is necessary to keep you. Hopefully. Good luck trying to get his attention in your situation, some men can be so hard to reach.
2006-09-04 12:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by GeorgiaGurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's a bit bored with this relationship, so spice it up. Do smth new, like changing your hairstyle, go to saloon and get your face and eyebrows really pretty, buy smth new to make what he likes more in your body be more than evident (showing off those shapes he likes) and act little bit like very normal, don't pay too much attention to him and tell him you'll go and hang out with the girls for 2-3 hours. Make him a bit jealous so he should start thinking "why is this girl looking so great just for an outing with her girls?"...Don't beg for his attention, make him beg for yours.
2006-09-04 12:03:26 · answer #3 · answered by DreamGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what happens after time.He feels he needs his space,like everyone does.Go out and find other interest yourself,and go out with your Friends.Its hard to entertain someone 24/7.If your not happy now why go on with the relationship.Find someone that wont let you breath and up in under you all the time.Good Luck
2006-09-04 12:03:59 · answer #4 · answered by mustang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face it girl he has better things ro do than hang with you. he has not matured yet so he wants his friends and the single life again. next time wait for a man instead of hooking up with a kid.lol. another thing get married next time. that way you have something to say about when and where you both will go together.
2006-09-04 18:04:27 · answer #5 · answered by jms043 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe that is because u are an abselute bore! Yawn movies my word, try going out, try cocktail bars, try going to exotic restuarant, try hiking, taking walks, a holiday, role play, karioki, invite his friends for dinner and play porker with them as well. Try strip porker with him alone, be more bloody fun that should work if it does not let him go and just get a nerd like u!
2006-09-04 12:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by Tumi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some boys do take relations for granted..have a frank talk that u need to be TOGETHER to feel the love...try and see if uv stagnated in some way,if so,reform urself,then tackle him.He has to spruce up,or soon u'll be too bored & feel unloved.
I've been in a relation for 5 years...this stagnation is yet to set in though!!!
2006-09-04 12:01:37 · answer #7 · answered by Victoria C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wake up its because he is not ready to settle down, if his friends are more important than you then you need to find someone who enjoys spending time with you. tell him that if he cant spend more time with you then tell him to **** off its that simple. sometimes the truth hurts, but you need to find someone that enjoys you not his friends. i mean dont get me wrong he should spend like 1 night a week with his friends, but not every night.
2006-09-04 12:03:33 · answer #8 · answered by kelley_blues26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a kick up the backside start going out with your friends and let him chase you treat them mean keep them keen!! It works honey trust me
2006-09-04 11:59:34 · answer #9 · answered by dizzymooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Online poker?? I guess I'd lose some weight
2006-09-04 11:58:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋