my parents own 3 houses right now they do what you call house flips so two are being rented right now one however is vacant. my friend rachel new were the extra keys were kept and she threw a party at the house. she called to invite me as if nothing !!!! i am really mad at her my mom thinks someone broke in and trashed it and will be filing a police report about it should i tell her? there was at least 500 dollars worth of dammage done to house i dont want to get my friend in a lot of trouble.
2006-09-04 04:50:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i went over to try and end the party but no one listened and i did not now what to do.
2006-09-04 04:51:26 · update #1
she does not see why i care when its my parents house.
2006-09-04 04:56:26 · update #2
ask your friend to cover the damage.
2006-09-04 04:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by rosha s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you try and sit your mom down and tell her then maybe she might understand but think of it this way do you want your mom to find out by you or by the cops. trust me Friends don't stay around forever....how many times have you been the one to pay for everything or been used some way or another! if you told her not to do it and she did it anyways trust me that is no real Friend! regardless she did it and is putting you into trouble if your parents find out you knew and didn't tell them. she needs to fess up to her choices she tHreW the party and she is resonsible for the damage....... don't let her run you over ...be smart...... will she be there if you get in major trouble i think not she proved she didn't not care!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-04 12:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Of course. You should tell your parents. Your friend caused all of this now she needs to take responsibility and face her own consequences. She needs to act like her age and do whats right. Even know she was immature b4...she needs to get her act together and pay for the damage.
2006-09-04 12:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by Chaysee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SNITCH im so against snitching but in this case it must be done your parents can sue her parents and those kids involved for damage there is no reason why you parents should foot the 500 to fix the mess
2006-09-04 12:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ Mom2two Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom before she files the report and your friend gets into real trouble - better the families work it out rather than the courts....
2006-09-04 11:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by schester3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
should you tell your mom? Absolutely.
Here is why. Your so called friend outright disrespected you. She knew this house was vacant and it was owned by your mom , she also knew it would cause damage. Yet this friend of yours didnt seem to care. Why should you protect a friend like that? They werent concerned with you were they? Dont be concerned with them.
2006-09-04 11:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by bolo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
considering that it is/was one of your friends that trashed a possible source of income for your parents it is your responsibility to let them know how it happened and from who because when you start a family of your own you may do something hearly the same and would you want your kids letting some of their buddies trashing your rent-houses???
2006-09-04 13:58:28 · answer #7 · answered by Bucky411_hit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was just rude to do that, and yes i think u should tell ur friend what they are planning on doing i dont think they will really find out who all did it because it was a party and there were alot of people there, i dont think they can just pin it on one person but she doesnt seem like a really good friend if she did that
2006-09-04 11:53:58 · answer #8 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohmg, mtell your rents man you can get the blame in the long run.your pal, will get caught and shed ahve listened if she was indeed a pal. for all you know shell say you gave her the keys, so fess up the info to your parents.your better off.
2006-09-04 12:03:20 · answer #9 · answered by RAECHELLE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents and who cares if your friend gets in trouble. She's obviously no a true friend!
2006-09-04 12:17:54 · answer #10 · answered by puma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell the truth to your parents. Atleast they can avoid a police report.
2006-09-04 11:54:34 · answer #11 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋