(this all happened last year)ok so i go to a school witch is just for boys and everyday when i go home 2 of my friends take the same way home, anyway one of them tells me that he thinks that this girl that we see from the other school looks good (he always says that about almost all of them)so,once his little brother goes with us and i was just joking around so i tell his brother do u want to see ur brother`s girlfriend?and apparently his parents don`t alllow that so any way my other friend comes and tells me to stop lying, and then all of my friends start yelling at me for doing that(ALL OF THEM!!!)and then me and my "friend" (the one who i told his brother)and another friend where standing so the other one says did u hear what khikha (that`s not my real name)told your brother so he turns his head, not to face me but to look at the sky and says"yeah i heard and khikha a real a**hole"so i turn away and start walking and he stops talking to me for almost a year and in the end he comes
2006-09-04 04:45:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
to me and says that he wants to be my friend so i go: if u want u can apollogise but i`m not cuz i didn`t do anything wrong.but again my friends say that i shouldn`t have said that, but any way we were "friends"again but since then he doesn`t really act normal around me or even talk to me like he used to.am i wrong or didn`t he just say that he wanted to be friends again?!?!?!?!thnx 4 listening
2006-09-04 04:46:16 · update #1
but i didn`t mean anything when i told his brother i didn`t think he`d mind
2006-09-04 04:47:09 · update #2
he even said that i was trying to make him have a big fight with his mum and i didn`t !!if he really was my friend shouldn`t he think that maybe i didn`t mean that?!?!?!
2006-09-04 04:49:50 · update #3
Apparently your friend is really immature for getting upset with such a joke. He really doesn't have sense of humour, so I'd stay away from such friend. You can talk to him, but don't get involved too much, like putting too much caring in this friendship...sooner or later he would get upset again and you don't need someone whom you'd feel stressed around, like "I think that what I've just said made him get upset once again". Friends should first have the sense of humour and then if you tell him smth, he should consider it. And if he goes, you don't miss anything. You can find a better friend. If all your friends protected that guy saying you were wrong, it means they r a bit short minded and really living in the Stone Age. Since when people are not allowed to make an innocent joke about a girl?
2006-09-04 04:57:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to sit down and talk about it if you want to be good friends again. Tell him you were just saying as a joke because you knew he liked her looks. You could tell his brother the same thing. It has been a while since this happened.
Tell him how you feel. You may never be as good friends as you use to be. Just be there for him if he wants to talk.
2006-09-04 04:50:55 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you knew your friend could get in trouble with his parents for 'liking a girl' why would you go and tell his brother (especially since little brothers and sisters ultimately tattle to their parents)? You hurt your friend's feelings and he likely no longer felt he could trust you, so he stopped talking to you. But... he apparently missed the friendship you two once had so he tried to make amends. And instead of being his good friend again, you go off and tell him that you didn't do anything wrong. But in reality you did. Friends don't rat on friends unless their physical or emotional health is in danger. They don't humiliate or embarrass their friends in front of others either. Maybe it's time you put yourself in this guy's shoes and understand how it must feel to be him. It really wasn't funny what you did. Admit to that and maybe you'll understand the true meaning of friendship.
2006-09-04 04:53:50 · answer #3 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You probably meant this all in fun, but, you don't know what happened when he got home!!!! It sounds like his brother probably said something when they got home and he got in trouble with his parents. You could always try thinking before you speak, that always helps. As far as you thinking that you didn't do anything wrong, you should apologize, its no wonder he doesn't speak much to you now, he doesn't know what you will say next and get him into trouble again. Again, think before you speak!!! It helps!!!
2006-09-04 04:54:28 · answer #4 · answered by winona e 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Avril Lavigne always has and always will suck and that's a fact. Her hardcore fans deserve to suffer!
2016-06-13 20:13:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess you lost a friend. He will be like he used to be, but just give him time. But next time try not to joke around like that.
2006-09-04 04:52:56 · answer #6 · answered by Mandy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It all seems a little petty but if apologizing will help things along, just do it. You can word it like, "Im sorry if what I said made you mad or got you in trouble". Thats not apologizing for saying it...really.
2006-09-04 04:51:09 · answer #7 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Better just be casual or neutral about him. He is not your friend and he is not your enemy.
Maker friends with other people.. lots of them.. why worry about this one only.
2006-09-04 04:55:48 · answer #8 · answered by yulnores 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋