welll yeah it's been almost been a month my ex is just trying to mess my life up last night she called the cops on me i didnt have no clue at all of wat was happenening when my mom told me the cops came on looking for me i was thinking to my self whats happenenig and then out of no where the cops show up again and tell me that she is being harrassed when i havent even talked to her or seen her why cant she just leave my life alone you kno i still love her and miss her with all my heart but i get over stuff like this im not over it yet but i will ill take time like everyone says theres more fish in the ocean. b ut why cant she just leave my life alone what should i do people. plez give me advices or something ill appreciate that.
2006-09-04 04:35:49 · 17 answers · asked by mikeymike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
some Lady's think that calling the cops on people or i have even heard of Lady's making fake police reports on men cause the relationship was ended . What I would do is if she calls the cops tell them the situation if she calls your home or cell say hay she is the one calling me not the other way around keep the phone number on the phones if she calls. As for many fish in the sea yes there is but maybe she just was too whacked for you I do not know but make sure for a while that you have a friend with you every where you go then you can have an alibi.I think the reason is that she just wants to get even with you and calling the cops is against the law in Michigan and making false reports can land her in jail.Hope things get better and your hart heals.
2006-09-04 04:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by stefania_n2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find someone or some people to hang with full time. Not just for comfort but as alibi's too. I suggest you join a divorce help group. It does take time to get over someone you once loved and you never forget them 100% but in this case you need to put a lot of space between her and you. When things fall apart like this where the police are being called on a regular basis (which if you truly where not bothering her wastes a lot of resources that could have been used to help someone that needed the help.) I would suggest you go and get an order put on her and if you have children only have a third party person that you both know and trust drop the kids off and pick them up. and if you have the means change your phone number or have hers blocked where she can't call and you can't call her(only if children are not involved in the picture.) I would also suggest that you take up a new activity to put all your pinned up emotions into something that get you out and about where you may just pick up a female friend or two or just find people to talk too.
Good luck.
2006-09-04 04:49:06 · answer #2 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yikes.... sounds like she's way not over you and wants to get your attention... maybe you can call her out for coffee or something platonic and sit her down and explain that you want to keep this all amicable and she shouldn't keep doing stuff like that. Both of you need some time alone, to think, to grow up a little and to appreciate what you had. she's just cheapening what the relationship was by doing all this stupid stuff.
when you do meet with her, listen to her what she says, when you guys depart from coffee or tea or whatever.... (stay away from alcohol or any event in the evening, have this meeting during the daytime) part on friendly terms or try to at least.
hope that helps a little
Good luck
2006-09-04 04:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by bigmak1125 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have already talked with her, and If she is still livening at home, and is a minor, sit down with her, her parents, and your parents and talk about it. If your parents wont do that for you then talk with her parents yourself.
If she is an adult and you are as well then talk to some mutual and level headed friends to sit with you and her and talk it out.
If you are in school talk to the guidance counselors they should have information and numbers for you to call.
It is a good thing you are not going out with her anymore considering how she acts. Just image if you were married!
2006-09-04 04:43:32 · answer #4 · answered by aiji.tenchijin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Mikey,,,, look pardner,,,, I know what you are going thru,,, i got an ex from 16 yrs ago,, that i have my daughter with,, and she has made it her life goal to make me as miserable as can be,,,,
You only have been out 1 month,, hmmm,, thats pretty bad...
look up dirty tricks online and see if you can get some pointers,,, or move for a while ,,,
good luck
2006-09-04 04:39:40 · answer #5 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We were friends for ages and always flirted and stuff in class and one day we went back to my house so he could see the football score (lol) and then when he left
(btw we were in year 7 then so pretty lame haha!) he said come here so I stepped out the door and he kissed me on the cheek... things happened and after a few
months we broke up. Then, at a friends party, we started to speak again, about a year later btw, but he had a girlfriend. My 'best friend' wanted us to go out so at my
birthday sleepover we ended up getting back together. After a few months he started being frosty and I asked him what was going on and he was just like I want to
break up < as blunt as that.
2 weeks later someone told me his Facebook password (bad I know) but I went on there and realised he had been inboxing my best friend. 2 years on and she still
doesn't know that I know and I have never raised it when speaking to her but I will never let it go and I left her, our friendship ruined, but still speak occasionally.
Never go out with a boy that has loads of friends that are girls. He will end up fancying one of them.
Go to : https://tr.im/howtogetexback
2015-08-25 17:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by Gins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can just ask her. Tell her you would prefer to end your relationship on a friendly level but if this continues, you will have to put a restraining order on her.
2006-09-04 04:39:20 · answer #7 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not do any thing that will encourage her. The easiest and best way to destroy a relationship, is to completely ignore the person . If you don't believe me ask any who has been ignored.
2006-09-04 04:41:19 · answer #8 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful, I know of a guy who is in prison for 7 years because of this exact situation. His X charged him with physical abuse because she kept on messing with him and he ended up hitting her. (while under the influence). (he did have priors too).
2006-09-04 04:41:17 · answer #9 · answered by T J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a restraining order, so that way it'll be documented w/ the court system just in case. Good luck. that girl is psycho LOL
2006-09-04 04:37:31 · answer #10 · answered by SweetPea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋