When we are working on report lately, he brushes his hand against mine (we have to sit side by side). I thought at first it was accidental, but seems to be happening a lot. Also he stares straight into my eyes and I am sure he is asking a non-verbal question as to wether I am intereseted or not. Usually I have no problem determining if a girl is interested in me, but this is the first time I thought a guy was coming on to me...any thoughts?
2006-09-04 04:33:12 · 11 answers · asked by york 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try to make small talk while doing so slip in hints that you are very much hetro, maybe even slip in hints that gays make you nervous. Just do something to make him aware that your not gay before something drastic happens.
2006-09-04 04:43:04 · answer #1 · answered by noname 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a married male, and therefore unavailable to either men or women who are 'coming on' to you.
Those are my thoughts. Stop staring back when he looks into your eyes. Ensure that the hand brushing stops any way you see fit. You're not interested, okay?
I'm ashamed of you! The thought crossed my mind that you're trying to figure out if he's interested so that he'll commit a major faux pas and you can blackmail him or something. Is that it?
2006-09-04 11:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa. Tell that guy in not so many words you don't swing that way. Not trying to be rude, you could say sorry but I am strictly chickly. Thats what my brother has said. Maybe he is trying to find out if your gay and trying to get a reaction out of you. If it persists, I'd suggest talking to a higher up and see about being moved to a different area. I don't think you have to give reason, just say something on the area that you are uncomfortable in your current area and if they insist tell them without saying a name.
2006-09-04 11:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys don't totally come onto to guys like guys come onto girls if he asks to "get a drink" after work... that is a way to see how he is feeling because of his body language sitting at the bar. if his pelvis faces you he is into you but if not he could just be an emotional person.
2006-09-04 11:38:31 · answer #4 · answered by Mulls86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider not wearing your pants so damn tight. You have been teasing the guy, and now he is responding. What are you afraid of York?
2006-09-04 11:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by Sociallyinquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him about your wife and how much you love her. The next time he touches you, say, "Watch it, buddy. That's annoying." And say it with an edge to your voice. If it continues, talk to your supervisor.
2006-09-04 11:38:04 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup hes flirting with u
2006-09-04 11:35:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say just hit back with a fist that is!!!!
2006-09-04 11:40:22 · answer #8 · answered by luvmykids2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he is gay? if he is then he might like you and from there you should tell him you aint into that!!
2006-09-04 11:39:19 · answer #9 · answered by babystuff6262005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL - kiss him and see if he giggles
2006-09-04 11:35:42 · answer #10 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋