there are theses 2 guys that i like a LOT. One- "Bob"- I've known since i was little... so i care about him a lot and he is so awesome- when he's not high. He's like the "bad" boy. He gets bad grades and doesn't try at all in school... he';s even had a couple run-ins w/ cops.... The other- "Fred"- I've known for a year and he's one of the greatest guys i've ever met. He's the COMPLETE opposite of "Bob". He gets good grades (he's in the top ten of the sophomore class), we have a lot of the same interests, he would never think of doing anything illegal, and he's soooo sweet... but my cousin (whom i'm really close with) thinks he's gay... but i don't... i no "Fred" sooo much better than my cousin (my cousin having actually spoken to him only twice over AIM... me having spoken to "Fred" almost every day)..... but it is a small possibility that he IS gay....... but i dont think so.... for my own reasons... so who should i chose???????
2006-09-04 04:28:25 · 20 answers · asked by yo. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Go for the nice guy...bad guys always break your heart. Even if he's nice to you now, I don't think he'll give you a sense of security in the long run. In fact, his frequent encounters with the cops will be heartbreaking for you in the long run.
If you've spoken to the nice guy for so long, then your familiarity with him will help you confront your doubts about his 'gender'. Tell him that so-and-so said he's gay...look out for his response.
2006-09-04 04:33:51 · answer #1 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose Fred.. as you described him to be, he is perfect for you. But then be prepared still. Life is not all roses, a good guy can turn bad by unfortunate events, and a bad guy can turn good for the same reason.
Anyway, at least you have more favorable percentage with Fred.
Just because he is good doesn't mean he is gay.
When I was a teenager, some of my friends think so, because I also do things that women do, such as sew my own clothes, help my grand mother sew whatever it is she wants, I wash my own clothes, I help in house chores and do other things that in those days are for women only. But it did not make me gay.. It only reinforced my manhood and self steem specially when I saw and known some gays later on who are so macho looking, full of hairs, strong arms, bulking muscles etc..but turned out to be gays inside the closets.
2006-09-04 04:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess your question is simple and you can answered yourself, but before you decide you have to answe yourself. How many times are you willing to be arrested? Do you want to spend few years behind bars por possetion? Even if you don't do drugs, but there are strong chances that the first guy will put some on you so if you are stop, he can get away. Now the second one may or may not be gay and if so what? I am sure there are more than two guys who want to take you out for a ride, you just haven't put attention to them. Look around and you will see!
2006-09-04 04:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by Engonos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well we cant really make the decision for u, lets look at the possibilities, bob would proly get u into alot of trouble, he seems like the guy thats gonna want alot of sex, fred on the other hand is a nice guy, he would be someone u could see yourself with in the future, but its all your choice, depends on what type of guy u like, the "bad boy", or "nice guy"
2006-09-04 04:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you kno i think you should always go with the good person if thats what you want i think that will be better for you poeple have there own ways of personalities in life ive had a girl where all she did was high and was a really great person but she then started to cheat on me why cause i always let her go to her friends house and they get high and drink so it dosent turn out good lol if i was in your sitiuation but oppossite chossing a bad or good girl i will go with the good one it always turns out better.
2006-09-04 04:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by mikeymike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please you gotta be kidding? the 1st one. cuz he substitute right into a real chum you may cling out with and be your self. the 2d seems to be in user-friendly terms a weigh down and sounds like he could become a playa. Bob might have a protracted courting with you and intensely significant the place as invoice could be over in the previous it even gets started and he will probable wreck your coronary heart....yet you make certain
2016-12-14 17:56:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your chances with fred. bob doesn't seem to be going anywhere. even if he is gay, you have a better chance of coming out of it with your dignity in tact.
2006-09-04 04:35:17 · answer #7 · answered by the man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its still up to u but were i in ur situation i would pick "Fred" he would be more likely to get a good job and be able to support a family
2006-09-04 04:31:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,
Fred does sound like an obvious choice based on what your wrote...
2006-09-04 04:30:27 · answer #9 · answered by bb_kitkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with Fred because you guys already get along and he is actually good influense!!!
2006-09-04 04:30:50 · answer #10 · answered by babystuff6262005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋