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I'm a gay male, not bi at all, and I've met 2 women in my life who I felt attracted to. Turned out, they were both rather butch lesbians, and I'm guessing I was attracted to their "inner guy"
On Queer Eye for the Trans Guy, Myles was kinda cute, and I'd have considered dating him.
Just wanted to know if the reverse was ever true.

2006-09-04 03:47:07 · 10 answers · asked by tkdeity 4 in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

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Im straight, but am often very attracted to butch females. I think i just like the maleness of them or their 'inner guy' as you call it
I posted a question similar to this but from a differnt sexual viewpoint a while back, got some great answers, check it out if you like

2006-09-05 00:42:13 · answer #1 · answered by livachic2005 4 · 1 0

Yes, some people are going to read all that. I'm a bit out of my depth WRT an answer, though. You have a lot of confusion going on, not just around your sexuality, but around your relationship with your dad as well. WRT this guy, I'll take a shot at your mixed feelings by saying that he's too girly for you, too. What I mean by that is you like him like a girlfriend, but in my experience at least, bisexual women usually aren't any more attracted to girly guys than straight women are. Not criticizing him, just stating a fact. I had a co-worker like that once; his dad died when he was very young (didn't even remember him) and he was raised by his mom and his sisters. I thought he was gay when we first met and was surprised to learn later that he 100% straight. Despite being very handsome and having a cool car, he was totally dateless. Probably because he was so effeminate. If you can get past that, he might work out as a b/f. Or maybe not. Or maybe you're a lesbian. I think even you don't know right now. It sounds like you're in school, so I strongly recommend seeing a school counselor. They can help you sort all this out, or put you in touch with the right resources to do so.

2016-03-26 21:44:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I guess it does happen....but it never has with me. I have some gay male friends that are really good looking (not really femme, though), but I've never felt anything more than friendship.

2006-09-04 04:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0 0

The few men that I have been attracted to have all been very masculine physically ( beards, mustaches, very athletic builds ) but seem to have a more genteel souls

2006-09-04 13:20:13 · answer #4 · answered by chocolate sundae 3 · 0 0

im a lesbian and this guy im friends with whos gay is somewhat feminine. i was very attracted to him when we first met. you have to remember ive never been with a guy. all i thought about was him. it was crazy! now hes just a guy. hehe

2006-09-04 03:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by lindsey_philyaw_05 1 · 0 0

here is a joke to cheer u all up Q:what do gay men and ambulances have in common A:they both go whoo! whoo! when something is put in their back entrance!

2006-09-04 04:21:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

it does happen. One of my gay male friends is gorgeous i told him if i ever went straight he would have to become straight to lol!!!

2006-09-04 04:00:07 · answer #7 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 0 0

Once

2006-09-04 04:20:42 · answer #8 · answered by e Answer T 1 · 0 0

i have! but i consider myself queer, also.. which isn't necessarily gay. you know?

2006-09-04 06:53:47 · answer #9 · answered by kittens 5 · 0 0

well i guess it is possible

2006-09-04 05:33:19 · answer #10 · answered by bonnie3bd 3 · 0 0

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