I am 20year old . I am working hard for my small agency but without getting any praise from my collegues. So i am feeling depreesed & very weak mentally as well as physicaly.
2006-09-04 03:33:23 · 17 answers · asked by Vivek S 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Well, first of all u shouldn't be thinking about ur praises while working in ur office. U just do ur work. I am sure one day u will surely be recognised. That shouldn.t harm u physyically or mentally. If so maybe ur performance will go down & u won't get the appraisal that u want.
2006-09-04 03:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by Trupti A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY GUESS WHAT ? THAT IS LIFE !!!
Remember when you were in school and told your parents how much better it would be to work and not be in school?
Well you are enjoying the BETTER part now !!!
You will find that 10 atta boys can be wiped out with 1 awe shiiit !
And to get the Atta boys you had better save the company some serious cash.
In the real world you will get negative attention really quick, like NOW... And No one wants to give positive attention out because they fear it may make themselves look bad.
SO you keep doing your best, your boss will notice who is working and who is not even if you boss doesn't say so.
But when it come time for a review and you get a good raise and the others are saying how little they got...
Understand?
:o) Welcome to life
Jerry
2006-09-04 03:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, praise is like sunshine to the spirit. It is very difficult to work without praise.But the colleagues donot always praise you, do they? And one can still work and do it very well, even if he is not praised by others only if he is very sure that what he is doing is really, reaLLY GOOD. sO, MAKE YOUR WORK REALLY GOOD SO THAT IT IS REALLY BENEFICIENT to the agency. Like Newton's third law, the results will bound to be good . Praises , which are generally the by products of good work, will also follow.
2006-09-07 21:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not alone having such sort of depressed feeling. this world is very selfish and unappreciative, irrespective of the fact that how much labour you put in. Although easy said than done, do your best and leave the rest in the hands of God who sees your earnest effort. You do not have to prove anything to your colleagues. At the end of the day what matters is your own satisfaction that you gave it everything.
2006-09-04 17:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by Rajesh G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your duties with a cheerful mind. R u doing your duties because u get salaries or expecting praise? Just ignore them and do your work . If possible try to get another job or u accept this job and settle down peacefully. Job satisfaction is very important.
2006-09-05 00:20:41 · answer #5 · answered by Bharathi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still young and still have to work it out. Sorry to say but it will go always like this. You just have to be happy for your self, and feel great. This attitude will show on your behavior and the following positive outlook will help you a lot.
2006-09-04 03:51:12 · answer #6 · answered by paolapoggi50 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rewards will be the final result of any goal. You are still 20. Don't loose heart.
2006-09-05 04:07:41 · answer #7 · answered by subbu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give a good kick on the back of them, Dhoooomm,
Be relaxed,
Tension deneka hay yaar, leneka nehi.
2006-09-04 03:39:41 · answer #8 · answered by Sunflower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the concerned person. If it doesn't workout, keep continuing your good work till you get a new one and don't lose hope...If you get a new one then don't turn back...
2006-09-04 23:19:30 · answer #9 · answered by Ajit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work further hard. Perseverence pays and your senior are bound to recognise and praise your hard work. it cannot go unnoticed
2006-09-04 03:54:20 · answer #10 · answered by Naresh C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋