Have been with a person for a while and it just is not as excititng as it used to be. Is that where it all spirals down to falling out of love, or is it just that the realationship is evolving. How do I know if the flame is out and I am just suffering in comfort or if really this just a strain all relationships go through?
2006-09-04 03:33:00 · 6 answers · asked by Tumi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
A person will know if he is falling out of love for the woman he once loved if there is no more excitement in his heart left for her. He no longer cares about what she does, where she is, how she is doing, so on and so forth. He no longer misses her and does not look forward to seeing her and being with her again.
When he is with her, he doesn't feel comfortable or at ease and wants to call it a day immediately so that he can bring her home . He does not call her as often as he used to do. And the final point is when he searches his heart, he no longer finds her there.
When this is the case, better let go so that it will not be unfair for the woman to believe that her man still loves her. The hurting will be too much if at the end, the woman realizes that he does not love her anymore and yet he keeps on pretending that he still does just to spare her from the agony of losing him.
Honesty is the best policy. Time will heal all wounds no matter how deep they have been inflicted on the hearts of that woman.
My point is...Be honest. Be sincere about how you really feel for that girl and you will never go wrong,. Good luck.
2006-09-04 03:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you and your partner need to communicate with each other. Let he/she know how you feel and maybe they feel the same way. But if you guys are doing the same rountine then you need to add some excitement back into your life and go do different things. Good luck!
2006-09-04 10:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by SweetPea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you look at your mate and they repulse you, every breath they take repulses you. when you would rather be anywhere than with them, when everything is more fun without them, when sex with yourself is more interesting than with them. Those are some good beginnings of I don't love you anymore and probably never did I was just in lust with you now I'm not
2006-09-04 10:37:53 · answer #3 · answered by ROSEY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is a lot
like a hot bath,
The more you get
used to it, the more you relize
it's not so hot...
theres my quote. its all i really have to say to that.
2006-09-04 10:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by susan s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you just need to ind new things to do every once in a while so you stay out of boredom
2006-09-04 10:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by hawaiicatlynblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is very common, only you can decide if you have fallen out of love. are you in love or not? simple as that.
2006-09-04 10:36:36 · answer #6 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋