girls can you help please?

Question

i slept with my bf but we used a condom and it didnt split or anything, but i have heard that they arent 100% effective, no i have had sore nipples the other day and boobs and i had a kinda pain in my stomach. i did a test but my period is due 4 another week and although the tests wer negative im worried that it was only 2 early 2 tell. do you think their is much chance i am pregnant? thanx

i dont no if these sympts are just due 2 me stressing over it?

someone asked wat age i am...... i am 20

Answer 1

The chances of u being pregnate is very slim due to u are sure it didn't tear etc..I never heard of it some how going through the comdom with out none getting out....As far as your breast being sensitive it could be from you getting ready to have your period, a women breast can get tender couple weeks before her cylcle comes.
You didn't mention if you were on any birth control? If your NOT it's best that YOU do as well so your chances are even more protected.
One week before your period yes, is a bit too early to see & I feel you maybe stressing it too much. But being concern is understandable and glad to know you are using good judgement to use protection...
It doesn't hurt to have your self check to see if you are but I would wait a week after IF you miss your period...

Answer 2

There is always a risk of becoming pregnant with any kind of contraception as none is 100% effective, however it is only a very small risk so try not to worry too much (although i know from experience this is difficult) as the stress can also delay your period. Give it another couple of weeks and if you are still worried and have had no period then do another test. Im pretty sure you'll be fine

Answer 3

I really doubt you are! Wait and see if your period comes because most tests wont work till your first missed period! It may be late because of stress (you worrying about the situation!) The doc can tell sooner but you probably dont want to see him/her yet. Just hang on and see, If no period in 2 weeks do a test, or 2 just to make sure.
As long as the condom didnt split you will be fine im sure. After you have resolved this situation, get some proper contraception, i have implanon- a small implant in my arm that lasts 3 years, I dont even need to remember to take a pill, its really good!
Good luck, and try not to worry yourself!

Answer 4

Probably not pregnant. I would suggest getting on the pill or shot in addition to the condom. Stress is probably the culprit for what you are feeling. Your period is due next week, and because you are worried about being pregnant you are noticing the tenderness in your breast and the early cramping that you usually do not pay attention to. Relax and call your family doctor or family planning and get an appointment to get on the pill or shot. Have a good day.

Answer 5

depending on how long ago u had sex u could take the morning after pill which u can take up to five days after having sex... alternativley u will just have to wait darlin, there are some preg tests now that u can use up to 4 days before ur period is due so u could try one of those in a few weeks?
as for ur symptoms - they are common with being pregnant but it could be something as simple as changing your washing powder that is making ur nipples sore? and maybe the stomach pain is digestive problems as when you get stressed u can very often get pain your stomach x

Answer 6

Hi

I would say it is still to early to say see how you are in a week if your period still hasn't come then do another test. I had sore and itchy nipples just before I found out I was expecting but it was a planned pregnancy. If you used a condom and you are sure 100% that it didn't tear then you should be fine I hope all goes well for you.....

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Answer 7

nothing is 100%...i hate when people say that as long as the condom doesnt break, and it is taken our properly...blah blah blah...that there is no chance you can become pregnant. that is NOT true. I became pregnant while using both birth control and a condom...there was no reason why both failed me, but when I asked my gynocologist, her answer was simply "nothing is for sure, except abstinence". dont freak out yet though, although its better said than done, i know. A lot of it can be in your head...and most of those symptoms dont occur immediatley after you have sex...but they do occur quickly because of the hormone changes. Be careful with your body and schedule an emergency gyn. appointment if it makes you feel better about the situation and relives your stress faster. Good luck!

Answer 8

your body will act like its pregnant if you think you are. Its just one of those mysteries of the woman mind and body.

condoms are only 98% effective when used correctly, correctly being that they are put on before he ever contacts you with his penis. It must be put on all the way too, rolled all the way up to the base of his penis. If you did that then theres almost no chance that you are pregnant.

But their effectiveness acording to actual usage (they way everyone uses them in real life) is only 86%.

It is too early to tell with a test if you are pregnant, although you could probably request blood work from your doctors office and get an accurate reading by now.

Sex is for making babies, and it always will be. You cant take that out of it just by adding protection. If you dont want babies, its best to just avoid making them until you're in a forever relationship with a ring on your finger.

Answer 9

Well it's 50/50 at the moment. If the condom didn't split then you should be ok. I would say the symptoms are from your period which is about to start. Just wait until your period comes to be sure, you can't take a pregnancy test until your period is late.

Hope it all works out for you.

Answer 10

Well if you know that condoms are not 100% effective then you should have not even chance the risk by having sex. Sex is not all that important to get you all worried about being pregnant.

Wait till you get a period, if not take a test, go see a doctor and stop having sex since you are worried about being pregnant.